Providers reaching out.

The bigger problem is that she also saved your personal info she got during screening.

Personally I enjoy getting messages from providers I’ve seen. Part of the appeal of the hobby is attention paid to me from women, so any trivial discourse to me is like getting the attention for free. It’s nice to know if it’s a lady that I’ve seen that she was thinking about me and can tolerate me enough to want to interact further. Texting or phone calls to personal numbers can be unwarranted for obvious reasons, but pm’s on these platforms or emails are a nice surprise. I get how some guys may not want any interaction until they are ready, but knowing that it’s still a business exchange doesn’t hurt my feelings when some one I know follows up with me if they are bored. That’s just me personally, but I know I’m weird so whatever. It rarely happens, but when it does it kind of gets me excited.

Personally I enjoy getting messages from providers I’ve seen. Part of the appeal of the hobby is attention paid to me from women, so any trivial discourse to me is like getting the attention for free. It’s nice to know if it’s a lady that I’ve seen that she was thinking about me and can tolerate me enough to want to interact further. Texting or phone calls to personal numbers can be unwarranted for obvious reasons, but pm’s on these platforms or emails are a nice surprise. I get how some guys may not want any interaction until they are ready, but knowing that it’s still a business exchange doesn’t hurt my feelings when some one I know follows up with me if they are bored. That’s just me personally, but I know I’m weird so whatever. It rarely happens, but when it does it kind of gets me excited. Originally Posted by DreamboatATX

Dont fool yourself! Its all about money! Theres a motive behind every action any one of these providers makes.

Over the past 12 to 14 months i have undergone a few surgery's and Medical procedures.
Including open heart.

My concern was hobby friends reaching out during this time.
Also of not surviving the procedure and my Phone contacts revealing more then should be revealed for no good whatsoever.

i cleaned my phone and broke off with one friend, (not you Tammie)who had reached out too many times.

So just saying , be careful

This is my take. During a session, and over time, emotions tend to get deep. If I don't compartmentalize, and look at the hobby as a chest of drawers so to speak, my heart we get broken every time I took notice that somebody hadn't called me in a long time period. The only way that I can avoid this is to assign each Client a drawer. When a client calls and schedules a session, their drawer is opened. When the session is over that drawer must close and I cannot open it. This way, during session, I am fully engaged with that client. In their time, they are my only lover. However, Nobody else drawer is open, so in that time nobody else exists as my lover. This is how I am able to stay authentic and allow those emotions to run freely during session, yet my heart doesn't get broken when I don't hear from them later or soon thereafter. Because with this strategy,the time between seeing them and hearing from them again doesn't exist. No time has passed at all. Because I don't think about them between sessions. Therefore, I am excited to see them without a bunch of questions and hurt feelings getting in the way. Yes, it means I don't miss you. But if I missed you, my heart would be hurting. I don't contact suitors. I wait for them to contact me. It's the way I have learned to protect my heart because I do fall in love with you. And I couldn't bear having a broken heart when I don't hear from you again. That's why you tribute me. So I don't get confused and question "where do you think this is headed?" It keeps me in my lane. As your provider. Not your wife. As your side bitch. Not your gf.

I say that I have a bunch of monogamous relationships. Just all over the same span of time.

^^^^^^^^ That is some sexy stuff right there love!

While I was reading it my drawers were neither open nor closed- just tented.

This is my take. During a session, and over time, emotions tend to get deep. If I don't compartmentalize, and look at the hobby as a chest of drawers so to speak, my heart we get broken every time I took notice that somebody hadn't called me in a long time period. The only way that I can avoid this is to assign each Client a drawer. When a client calls and schedules a session, their drawer is opened. When the session is over that drawer must close and I cannot open it. This way, during session, I am fully engaged with that client. In their time, they are my only lover. However, Nobody else drawer is open, so in that time nobody else exists as my lover. This is how I am able to stay authentic and allow those emotions to run freely during session, yet my heart doesn't get broken when I don't hear from them later or soon thereafter. Because with this strategy,the time between seeing them and hearing from them again doesn't exist. No time has passed at all. Because I don't think about them between sessions. Therefore, I am excited to see them without a bunch of questions and hurt feelings getting in the way. Yes, it means I don't miss you. But if I missed you, my heart would be hurting. I don't contact suitors. I wait for them to contact me. It's the way I have learned to protect my heart because I do fall in love with you. And I couldn't bear having a broken heart when I don't hear from you again. That's why you tribute me. So I don't get confused and question "where do you think this is headed?" It keeps me in my lane. As your provider. Not your wife. As your side bitch. Not your gf.

I say that I have a bunch of monogamous relationships. Just all over the same span of time. Originally Posted by HunterGrace

I like getting into Hunter's drawers. IJS

Actually glad to be off that list. Justify it all you want. It was still unsolicited fishing for the potential future booking. You just admitted that in your own words.
And your rude and shitty comment was not very lady like! Thats ok, I have taken worse from far better. Originally Posted by winn dixie

I didn't see anything rude or shitty in her comment.

Unsolicited fishing is no big deal. Privacy is. However that onus is on the customer. Unless you get a burner phone and some kind of anonymous Email and make sure no one else has access to them, any contact info you give an escort won't be safe from law enforcement, your significant other, etc.

I didn't see anything rude or shitty in her comment.

Unsolicited fishing is no big deal. Privacy is. However that onus is on the customer. Unless you get a burner phone and some kind of anonymous Email and make sure no one else has access to them, any contact info you give an escort won't be safe from law enforcement, your significant other, etc. Originally Posted by Tiny

Be my guest and wk for her. She couldnt handle a different perspective, its quite obvious.