Dating sites are no different to me than for any other single lady; however, I have heard stories of unethical behavior by providers who sign up hoping to solicit business. The only time I mention being a provider is when talk gets serious about meeting up. At that point, I advise we have one more skeleton in my closet to discuss so that there are no surprises. Some guys - even on dating sites - are not too thrilled about the hobby. I'd rather they know in advance than waste time for either of us.Kat, I found YOU on one of those sites not long after our session together. It was either aff or fling. I don't recall which. Almost contacted you for a second "date".
No, I don't give discounts to hobbyists who approach me via a different type of site.
SPANK! Originally Posted by Kit-4-Kat
Kat, I found YOU on one of those sites not long after our session together. It was either aff or fling. I don't recall which. Almost contacted you for a second "date".Well, you're always welcome to say hi! lol I've spotted both hobbyists & providers on the sites. I will have to check AFF for my old handle there as I haven't been there in ages. I think they are way too expensive! Fling would be the most frequently visited although sometimes I go a week or so w/out checking messages. I'm not always wanting to sift through BS for substance, but will share that I've met a handful of true gentlemen there. Sadly, men fare less favorably in that environment as many women are very picky, and tend to be fickle or flaky in actually following through and meeting up. That gives me more brownie points for being "real" but makes it more difficult to get things going initially. I'm not necessarily seeking one-night stands, either. I have a number of gents available for that if I just need to blow off some steam & get some sleep. Finding a fellow worthy of and interesting enough to take me OUT of the house for some fun then let our chemistry build to heading home for some action then cuddle up till he wakes me up w/ morning wood followed by a co-ed shower and breakfast... That takes some time.Originally Posted by Damon Bradley
I don't want to accept that society has gotten so busy that we turn to internet sites to date.having said all that...i didnt have the best experience with the online thing. SEVERAL dates and only one did i want to see again. but... next time im single...im sure ill run into some more of you ladies online
for me...i really am to busy. also, my area does not have much to offer as far as women go. i also like getting at least a little bit of info on someone i may date...rather just see them in a bar and thinking with the wrong head.
Dating has been a sruggle since I started providing.
i can imagine...
I don't want to lie to anyone and I feel most men would have a hard time with it
lol, im sure i wouldnt be able to do it. i can see it now...reading my SO's reveiw while enjoying a glass of wine.
or would try to take advantage and not really see me for who I am.
thats what i did
Now that Bubbajay can recognize us I'm really not sure about it lol!
lol...is it ME specificly that makes you unsure...or the hobbiest in general... Originally Posted by BritneyBangs
thanks cheater. its funny...women have acutally told me that based on my name and pic...they thought i was going to be a fat, old, redneck...yet im none of the above Originally Posted by bubbaJayUh... yeah... Did you ever see the movie 'Magic' - http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077889/
Uh... yeah... Did you ever see the movie 'Magic' - http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0077889/uh...i didnt see the movie...that is creepy.
With this and that other thread you posted in about 50 times, you may have won spots on some DNS lists.
Anyway, I don't see a problem with providers on match.com, but they may risk being outed if they use the same photos. Originally Posted by tron
lol...maybe you should...
is the avatar really that creepy??? did you ever see the comedy show it came from? Originally Posted by bubbaJay