Personally, I think its when the member pushes past the back of the throat, (because you CAN close off your throat for it to bump against) but to open the throat and accept it down(like swallowing it down throat with tongue out) is to choose to choke (no breathing/mind over matter) And then can be called Deep Throating... Just my opinion... Originally Posted by DubieliciousI love you!! I will be contacting you soon.