I do a lot of research before I entertain (including a check of reviews to evaluate a gent's past provider type), and to be completely honest, yes. Shine seems like a nice enough fellow, but I won't knowingly see anyone who has visited a provider openly advertising BBFS/CP. I'm not going to babble useless statistics, as again, this is a choice some make, and that's fine for them.
I realize this doesn't completely protect me, as I'm sure a lot goes on in bedrooms that nobody confesses, so safety is relative. It could be argued that if a provider monitors her health status carefully and takes precautions for subsequent clients, she can indulge, but how does she effectively check her BBFS/CP playmate's medical record? I guess that would be part of her screening. I choose not to take certain risks. I don't see fellows under 40 for various reasons, either, but that doesn't mean that I abhor young gentlemen!
I appreciate those who engage in particular practices for being upfront about it so that I can make an informed decision, and I defend their right to play as they wish, but participants have to embrace the repercussions.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
Lying about sex is as old as apple pie. It's a waste of time trying to sift through it. To me the guys that you are seeing that are bare-backing other girls but not saying shit are having a pretty good laugh at you saying this
....My view is that 80% of providers are bare backing at least 1-2 clients. It's just an unspoken "gentlemen's type agreement". So if I decide to see someone I'm seeing her under the assumption she's bare-backing someone. I don't care if she advertises it or not. Conversely just because she offers bare-back doesn't mean all Gents go see her just to bare-back. Why do I say 80% because I know of how often it's offered or has been ...these aren't girls who even advertise it. I don't judge if that's their thing I just strap up on my end.
and it's even worse in the RW. I know it makes you feel good to think you're providing yourself an extra level of protection but in this business by default..you are not....and the high risk pools those that engage in homosexual acts...do you know how many of them you have as clients? Probably not. That's why it's all a crap shoot.