Foreplay

As the type that likes to play for an hour or more I find that foreplay can be very important. I don't just mean getting my dick sucked or a lady getting her vagina licked and fingered. I mean taking the time to kiss. The build up from lite pecks to nearly intercourse via two mouths. Also taking the time to explore the others body: breast, neck, legs, ass, back, and of you're the type hands and feet.

Not to say getting an extended or lengthy blowjob is terrible. I just personally find my time overall is better when the foreplay is all encompassing.

I know this is just me but also I am far more likely to be able to go multiple rounds with proper buildup from foreplay. I've had an adventure or two were the provider just falls to her knees and blows. No kissing. How you doing? I get my nut. I just don't feel the need to go again, or visit again in the future in those cases. Don't be scripted, mechanical, or log from 0 to 150mph in 0.1sec. It can be a turn off. There are many of us that like the build up. Originally Posted by Permission2Look

Everyone is different and as a older provider I think I have learned to watch body language and get an idea of what he likes. I love to cuddle, caress and deep french kiss while we feel each other down. Everyone is different and you get the guys who are super horny and need zero warming up and ready to go. I go with the flow. Even while in action I love the moan, or leg twitching to give me confirmation that I'm hitting the right buttons for "him". I love kissing up the neck and sticking my tongue in his ear, if his Cock hardens and I feel his body tighten, I know that I found a love spot. Run my tongue across his balls, and get a leg twitch, it's that sweet confirmation that I love. My secret to keeping my partner happy is to pay attention and care, and I think I have learned it as I'm getting older.

very well said

There aren't good acronymsfor that activity. Lol. Maybe if there were we might be able to communicate re providers that have that quality from those who don't. I always kind of smile when some guys dis somebody for paying top dollar for a provider you has that hard to put into words quality. They often say things like "what!? You paid 600 and only got a bbbj. You can get that easy for 150". They don't seem to realize the bbbj was just the icing. You paid for the cake. Originally Posted by Goodbuddha

I'm not against foreplay, although when with a provider, in general I want one of two types of sessions. 1) down and dirty. Shove your tongue down my throat while you pull off my pants, drop to your knees and blow me. And that's the warm up. Or 2) you do the foreplay towards me. I'll sort of lay there and let you do your thing. This is why Asian spas exist. They pamper me, but they are naked and they stop at my dick/balls/and ass as they rub or kiss or whatever.

If I have to do the work in foreplay, I'll stay home with SO.

I'm not against foreplay, although when with a provider, in general I want one of two types of sessions. 1) down and dirty. Shove your tongue down my throat while you pull off my pants, drop to your knees and blow me. And that's the warm up. Or 2) you do the foreplay towards me. I'll sort of lay there and let you do your thing. This is why Asian spas exist. They pamper me, but they are naked and they stop at my dick/balls/and ass as they rub or kiss or whatever.

If I have to do the work in foreplay, I'll stay home with SO. Originally Posted by tbone77494

You are a zero warm up kind of guy, and that's great. Some guys like feeling as if they are with their actual gf, but what you describe is a pse cumslut kind of session. Some want to feel your soft skin, kiss you all over, caress your breast and soft tush and enjoy the feel of a woman. Some want to bend her over and fuck her gard while calling her a nasty little whore.

I like both, variety is wonderful! The difference between some providers is knowing when someone wants one over the other, and fulfillment of their fantasy at that moment!

What you're describing, imo, is the difference between a good provider and a mediocre one.

I would say to do more in depth research in the future; read reviews and try to make sure you only book with ladies who have a proven track record of providing the kind of experience you are after. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I was not trying to disparage any of the providers. Just wanting to point out that it's not just ladies who appreciate a good build up.

Speaking of build up, even good intellectual conversation can be equal to or greater than a wet sloppy blowjob when the two share a common passion for the subject.

I was not trying to disparage any of the providers. Just wanting to point out that it's not just ladies who appreciate a good build up.

Speaking of build up, even good intellectual conversation can be equal to or greater than a wet sloppy blowjob when the two share a common passion for the subject. Originally Posted by Permission2Look

100% agree. Mental foreplay is my favorite.

Foreplay: Why GFE & DFK Are So Important!

Foreplay is an absolute must for me. I like it to be as natural as possible. Some music, possibly dance, flowers , wine, chocoltaes, a massage, running the ice cubes through the body, deep kissing and touch the body. You will get them to orgasm organically and they will ask for more. That is why you went there for in the first place to get relieved and feel composed after a hard weeks worth of demanding business at your work. Ladies need the tenderness even if this is business. Love them for the moment and they will give it back to you respectfully. We sometimes forget the fact that this not about getting your ac fixed in the car and your car is under warranty. This is still human. And I am very great full to the ladies I have met on the board.

I'm here for these new acronyms.

"CWN - conversation about everyday life shit, but fully naked.

ECAAT - eye contact at all times.

SBNQ - slow build up no quit"

My piercing gaze and slow build up game are on point!

Then may I (self-servingly) say, that my IOE, FP, CWN, IQO and CHCW are legend worthy. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

That's tingle I just felt is telling me to check that out in person to be sure.

Everyone is different and as a older provider I think I have learned to watch body language and get an idea of what he likes. I love to cuddle, caress and deep french kiss while we feel each other down. Everyone is different and you get the guys who are super horny and need zero warming up and ready to go. I go with the flow. Even while in action I love the moan, or leg twitching to give me confirmation that I'm hitting the right buttons for "him". I love kissing up the neck and sticking my tongue in his ear, if his Cock
hardens and I feel his body tighten, I know that I found a love spot. Run my tongue across his balls, and get a leg twitch, it's that sweet confirmation that I love. My secret to keeping my partner happy is to pay attention and care, and I think I have learned it as I'm getting older. Originally Posted by Anna Nikkole

Wow I need to pay you a visit !!!!!

Wow I need to pay you a visit !!!!! Originally Posted by Jr.Htx

I thought foreplay started in coed... well for some, for others it's the end of opportunity.