Cherry, I get the same thing many times...and when I politely ask for more information...I get an attitude from the hobbyist for asking for more info...or they simply don't give me the courtesy of returning a reply. I post my screening requirements in all my ads, so I don't understand they get upset.
Originally Posted by CeCe Sinclaire
1.) You are safe to see (no violent tendencies with other providers)
2.) You don't have a habit of NC/NS.
I require a bit more than this. How do you verify even this type of info...unless you know who the hobbyist "really" is? I require a
detailed description and ask the references to specifically verify the information. Anyone can say he's hobbyist XYZ...we all know there are gents who "steal" handles even on P411.
I had this happen to me when I first came into the hobby...being very naive and green. It was a very spooky feeling realizing that I didn't know who was actually coming to my incall. I was lucky that the hobbyist didn't hurt me...he was just very anxious to get an appointment and used his office manager's info. This situation prompted me to get a whole lot more info before meeting someone.