So I’d like everyone’s input on this:If she was a reputable provider then it sounds to me like she’s been burned too many times. Having the room number well in advance is her way of assuring the appointment takes place. Unfortunately, since FOSTA, us ladies deal with a lot of bullshit, way more than normal. You guys would be amazed if you spent one day with any of our phones! I have had guys prebook, I set that time aside, have multiple requests that I’ve turned down due to the prebook, only to get ghosted when it came time to meet. 9 times out of 10 when this happens, the guy has given me little to no info on location. A Provider feels more secure the appointment will take place when she has as much info as possible on the front end and not last minute.
I’m currently out of state on a business trip, had pre booked in advance for an out call date with a pretty reputable provider, all was well until she asked for a room number 2 hours before session would start. I gave out the name of my hotel a few days ago, but I didn’t feel comfortable giving out my room number hours in advance. That’s a rookie mistake. I only do that with ladies I’ve seen multiple times since I’ve established a level of trust with them. I suggested to give it out 30 mins before session, but that was shot down. Also suggested to meet in the pool area and unsurprisingly that was shot down as well. Fuck my safety, right?
Doesn’t matter if she’s been doing this for awhile, but I don’t know her like that. I don’t know if she has a guy named Leroy waiting around the area to go in my room, fuck my shit up, rob my valuables, and leave. Needless to say, she cancelled the date because I made her feel uncomfortable by not providing her room number 2 hours in advance.
Anyhoo, I’m pretty bummed out about this cause I was so looking forward to this date, but thank you, next! Originally Posted by Parttimehobbyist
As a Provider, I will give my room number in advance to any regular client I see. I will also send my location in advance. I send both the same day of our appointment. However, if it is a new client, then I ask for them to text or call upon arrival for the room number. When I’m going to an outcall, I like to have the location a minimum of two hours in advance. I feel like I’m reputable enough to where any guy should respect that bc I’ve never done anything shady otherwise. Imagine a Provider giving her location and room number two hours in advance and the guy ncns her. If it’s someone new, I would pack up and change locations and be out even more money on hotel expenses. It’s different though when it’s someone reputable or someone you have previously seen and you know you can trust.