Screening issues

Nothing makes my p*ssy wet like a “rates and location?” text.

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

thats not fair. almost all the time the girls fail to post their menu and prices........

hate to let you all in on this little secret, but.... looking for an escort is like buying a used car.

You find the used car at the best price and lowest mileage.

Shopping for the best deal, is a time waster in your opinion, cause you dont want to be competitive.

thats not fair. almost all the time the girls fail to post their menu and prices........

hate to let you all in on this little secret, but.... looking for an escort is like buying a used car.

You find the used car at the best price and lowest mileage.

Shopping for the best deal, is a time waster in your opinion, cause you dont want to be competitive. Originally Posted by bf0082

I'm not competitive, other Ladies aren't my competition, they are my colleagues. I cheer for them daily and consistently give out references to help them.
I actually just raised my rates and I've been even more selective through the pandemic demanding longer bookings and have have no issues what-so-ever. I haven't taken a single same day apt in over a year I'm pre-screen pre-book only now. I've had a no review policy for over a year which has been great because it but down on random dick emergency "I need to see you now!" Inquiries. I've actually gotten better and better clients and more consistent regulars ontop of my awesome long time ones.
I have no menu, I'm not a restaurant. try other things instead of this dinosaur site.
This is how many random calls, voicemails, and incomplete texts I've answered in the last month...0. Just like any other service you introduce yourself with your name, your other required info, when you want thier service, and you make an appointment. My hairstylist is appointment and deposit only. My spa is appointment and deposit only. When I got my lashes done it was appointment and deposit only. My piercer, tattoo artist, chiropractor that comes to my house...all appointment and deposit only.

Nothing makes my p*ssy wet like a “rates and location?” text. Originally Posted by Blondemafiany

Right?!?

very well said miss Lexxxy

My original issue is that I can send all the asked for information offer a bunch of real world info in an email. Then either get a response or not.. did I use one of these bad terms that you decided to ghost me over? Do I just keep sending all this info to the next chick that may or may not think I deserve a response? Let’s be real I’m not setting up an appt with a business. Your nail people don’t ask for your work info or care for a picture. Unless you’re a serious real life monger ya gotta try and keep this hobby on the low. So a number other than my day to day phone is what we use.
All my tears are gone I can stop crying now lol

after you carefully word an introduction with all the details that have been listed as screening you wait for the reply. Sometimes it goes well and sometimes you get a short little reply and never hear back, others ya just never hear back. Are we getting that sensitive that the lady can’t just tell you that no appt is goin to be set? Why ghost someone after you told them they were good to go on screening? I get trying to avoid time wasters but this is supposed to be a fun hobby and it’s getting outta hand Originally Posted by JimmyNeeds

So you send all of your personal screening info out to random hooker ads
Do you send your social security number in response to emails about winning foreign lottery's too??

They pull this shit because simps go along with it.

No matter what any of them try to tell you deposits are bullshit. NO hairstylists, spa's, piercers, tattoo artists or chiropractors ever charges a deposit for an appointment. I've never seen a lash gluer personally but I'll willingly call BS on that one too

Nothing makes my p*ssy wet like a “rates and location?” text. Originally Posted by Blondemafiany

I guess this is good to know. While I don't simply send a text saying "rates and location" they are the first two questions I ask after introducing myself. Reason is that you can tell a lot about a provider depending on her rates and there are just certain areas I am not going to. So depending on the answer to those questions I am trying to save us both the time.

I am the furthest thing from a time waster as when I reach out I am ready to see you but good to know that is how I am coming across.

Bingo!
Good way to avoid time wasting sps also.

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

hahah this is cute cause its the kind of shit scammers would encourage.

For as many scams are out there to pay deposits from people in other states and cities or just pretending to escort to get traffic to a shitty onlyfans full of vertically filmed pay to unlock ontop of a 20$ a month sub fees for shaky handed 2 megapixel 480p bullshit.. my god... either you think everyone is a fucking idiot or as a provider you have no idea just how much scammy shit has been going around online since 1995.


I'd love to see as many people pressing a "service before payment" as much as girl are trying to push this "deposits via cashapp/paypal/wire me money before service" crap. Seriously, get real.

This reminds me of whiny shitty waiters on reddit that think if people can't afford to leave a 25$ tip they shouldn't take someone out for a 60$ dinner date.

Yes there are people who really don't feel like risking loosing 100-400$ on randomly sending some stranger money. That's "who gives a fuck money" to some really lucky privileged folks. Sadly the rest of us actually bust our fucking asses and our backs for a paycheck, don't get to do something we love to make our shitty 15-25$ an hour, and don't feel like pissing it away on a gamble they're most likely to loose.

It's not letting me edit my response, sorry.

I forgot to address all the "full service" advertisements of girls and reports of girls who say one rate and then charge for "extras" like you know..actually doing the deed or a position other than missionary or god forbid you want to go down on someone, well eating pussy is going to be another $$ but that wasn't mentioned before the date and initial payment. (i've seen that mentioned on this board more than a couple of times in the years i've been lurking)

Or better yet all the girls you message/email that are like "I don't really like messaging heres my rates no more questions" because you're trying to avoid a long drive for a really boring and expensive time where nobody is happy about anything.

Plus all this onlyfans shit is giving people more confidence than they should have? theres like thousands of creators who actually know how to use a laptop and a camera charging 5-10$ a month for fully unlocked content that they put a lot of time and effort into, and they don't escort but they have hundreds of hours of content and high def photos.

Meanwhile some 2 toothed 50 year Edit The Dr looking like Rosie O'Donnel with a 5 oclock shadow all over their rolly hotdog body claiming shes in the top .000005% of onlyfans content creators with 4 videos and 3 photos posted. Theres girls coming from escorting who expect you to give them 20-50$ a month to see a couple shitty blurry selfies.

Pay some more money ahead of time, just so you can make sure it isn't ANOTHER example of some girl using instagram filters or photos from her mid 20's when shes in her 40s now. Or better yet, it's "free" and they expect 20-50$ per selfie unlock. It's fucking absurd. Can you imagine going to a restaurant or a car dealership or a grocerystore and being told "Well yeah it costs X but you need to pay me X to see what X looks like unless you want to see it post processed with snapchat beautification and doggythot ears and a mouth covering most the product"



Maybe my "impressions" of the sex work industry are just skewed from having worked in shitty porn for a time many moons ago as a "north east rep excluding NYC and Toronto" or from what I've seen of the -hobby- in WNY

But I can promise you one thing, this glorification of sexwork being repackaged by the genius pimp who was able to market it to women as "#empowerment" and the loss of young people/men working in trades as more and more guys become to effete to even know how to change their own oil or put in a new sink faucet and trying to pretend every woman is a "goddess" is going to start having some hilarious consequences as we age as a generation.

Stop enabling this shit behavior my dudes. Negative behavior is learned. If people keep doing the same negative behaviors and it keeps being rewarded it becomes a learned habit. You date a girl or make a friend who keeps doing the same shit that upsets you but you keep allowing them to keep doing those things, it's never going to change. It's the same with any industry. You see tons of things in every industry of life that you work in that are kind of frowned on but plenty of people still do/get away with. The less people who do it/stand for it the harder it is to become widely accepted. Stomp out this misconception that paying a deposit is some acceptable behavior. This should remain a CASH industry until its nationally legalized ,and even then leaving some papertrail on venmo, cashapp, paypal, western what fucking ever is not a great idea.

Well stated. ^^^^^

But as PT Barnum said; There's a sucker born every minute!

Meanwhile some 2 toothed 50 year Edit The Dr Originally Posted by bargainbento

This is an example of the nonsense that has destroyed the usefulness of this board.