Clients wanting UNSAFE services

Just say NO!

Doesn’t always work that way. Sometimes they are verified, already in your personal space and want it, ask for it and if you say Ummmm no... they look at you like there is something wrong with you. You guys have no idea what we have to deal with sometimes.

Mostly awesome, but sometimes horrible! Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

That sounds like a fellow I know of that refers to himself as the king of reviewers, at least to the new girls in the hobby, and not only does he do that, but also threatens a bad review if they do not comply.

how about a simple solution?

post "no BB" in your ad.. look at Listcrawler, the ladies there finally realized that terminology works.. I have seen easily 2-3 times as many ads stating "no BB", as I did 6 months ago. if a guy wants BB, he flips to the next ad, the next girl. just like he would do at a Buffet.

why do you make it hard?

by the way, you should also stop advertising "open-minded", "will please you in any way you like", and other wording that basically screams out that you are BBFS friendly.

how about a simple solution?

post "no BB" in your ad.. look at Listcrawler, the ladies there finally realized that terminology works.. I have seen easily 2-3 times as many ads stating "no BB", as I did 6 months ago. if a guy wants BB, he flips to the next ad, the next girl. just like he would do at a Buffet.

why do you make it hard?

by the way, you should also stop advertising "open-minded", "will please you in any way you like", and other wording that basically screams out that you are BBFS friendly. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

You don’t get it....You can post that all you want.
And just because someone is open minded doesn’t give someone the right to assume they are open to unsafe behind closed doors practices.

Seems like you just want to blame the ladies.

We are the ones dealing with this not you.

It seems like you would make it clear in the screening process that if he expects more he will be shown the door. No exceptions. I support you 100% when you say it's frustrating for someone to arrive and not behave but you seem to have a chip on your shoulder about, "Seems like you just want to blame the ladies". Actually some of the ladies, not all, are to blame.

There is no standard format. "open minded" for some ladies is code speak for all sorts of things that don't include CFS. They include activities I would not want to get involved in. LL is advertising no newbies so it is even more bizarre for this issue to arise unless she is defending less tenured providers.

Huh? I don’t have a chip on my shoulders at all. I’m just speaking up. It seems some of you have a problem with any of us “speaking up”

I say No newbies, meaning if you don’t have recent, reputable reference, I will not see you.

Just because I speak up doesn’t mean I have a chip on my shoulder. I have been around this block a long time and have every right to throw in my two cents. It’s not just for the group of you that always have something negative to say to a companion who may challenge or disagree with you.

Have a great night. No chip on my shoulder!

Hugs!!!!! Hugs for everybody!!!!

At least the OP is open to some BB fun, good for her

LL, please don’t get so fussy. Your opinions and your stature in this community are highly respected. Some of us have been around just as long or longer than you. Yes you are correct. Some mongers try to trick fuck the ladies. This is blatantly taking advantage of her good graces and it should not be tolerated. I think we established that.

I don’t think there’s any negativity on this thread and I don’t think any of the males on this thread are trying pressure the ladies to go bare or to do anything else outside their comfort zone. I’m at a loss as to why this suddenly became a discussion about guys showing up and pressuring ladies or the hidden or not so hidden messages and the many inconsistencies among ads. I would much rather see a thread that addresses the topic responsibly and by a woman that clearly does not need to lower her standards than the run of the mill slut that does this as one of the few competitive advantages she has.

Yes hugs are in order and we should all just be getting along. Preferably at my place. Even the hot fussy ones.

Well so many of you ladies here that bcd will let the guys hit it raw I have also been with ladies that were not going to make strap up till I said something here in the DFW area at lot off ladies on eccic an oh2 very bareback friendly I think that's why at lot of you ladies here are being asked to do it because it at ton of girls that do even if they no bb in there adds they still might do it

I enjoy the hobby, but I don’t want my dick to drop off, too. Last year, I saw a provider and I only wanted a BJ. She was into me and wanted to fuck. She was about to stick my dick (BB) in her, and told me she had a woman’s condom on. I told her,”fuck, NO!”, but she kept insisting. It turned me off, so I got up and left her place.

And I'm willing to bet the providers in question went out of their way to advertise "No BB" or they stated they were "open minded". Up is down, left is right. It's confusing as hell to figure all this out because we are dealing with the opposite sex here

I enjoy the hobby, but I don’t want my dick to drop off, too. Last year, I saw a provider and I only wanted a BJ. She was into me and wanted to fuck. She was about to stick my dick (BB) in her, and told me she had a woman’s condom on. I told her,”fuck, NO!”, but she kept insisting. It turned me off, so I got up and left her place. Originally Posted by Joddxxx

What a pig! What's her name so we can stay away from her.....

See what we have to put with? Some of these women just do not respect our bodies or our feelings. I feel violated just reading this

Hey 6x! You're hot!