Crossdressing...

Well for me it's confusing , because why not get a sex change ? You want to wear girl clothing then you could do it all the time no worries whatsoever versus a guy who does it and dresses as a girl And has to hide it like Reese said at the beginning of the thread. Why want to wear it if you don't want to be a girl or feminine? To me if your starting to wear girl clothing your starting the sex change process because frankly what other reason can there be? Originally Posted by Anonymous170
Some men like to be dressed in corsets because it feels confining like bondage. Some like to be dressed up like a girl and shown off as part of humiliation. Others, have a feminine side, but are straight nd just like the way it looks and feels. @ Reese....like Ms. Doubtfire...that's too damn funny!
Well for me it's confusing , because why not get a sex change ? You want to wear girl clothing then you could do it all the time no worries whatsoever versus a guy who does it and dresses as a girl And has to hide it like Reese said at the beginning of the thread. Why want to wear it if you don't want to be a girl or feminine? To me if your starting to wear girl clothing your starting the sex change process because frankly what other reason can there be? Originally Posted by Anonymous170
Individuals are going to have their own reasons. For some its just kinky, for others it fulfills a temporary need. Many crossdressers only do it for sexual gratification, which is one of the definitions of "fetish". They are still raging heterosexuals and have no desire to be with a man or become a woman. They just get off on dressing up.

It's a pretty complicated, convoluted topic really. And it's one that is primarily a male-only issue. Women have been "crossdressing" for quite some time, but its not the same. Put a woman in jockey shorts and a wife-beater and it's no big deal. put a guy in tap pants and a camisole and suddenly he's a freak. Silly rules, but rules nonetheless.
All I can think of is Tobias Fünke dressed as Mrs. Featherbottom saying "Who would like a banger in the mouth?"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtW7eaSvd6A
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  • R.M.
  • 10-09-2010, 06:32 AM
Some men like to be dressed in corsets because it feels confining like bondage. Some like to be dressed up like a girl and shown off as part of humiliation. Others, have a feminine side, but are straight nd just like the way it looks and feels. @ Reese....like Ms. Doubtfire...that's too damn funny! Originally Posted by BritneyBangs
Truly Mrs doubtfire . The first night I met him before my hobby days. We met at a hotel so he could get dressed. All he knew was he liked blue eye shadow and red lips stick because his girlfriend in High School wore it, and the fact he liked the way silk and satin felt on his cock.
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Many women enjoy making love to a man who is wearing a sexy bra and panties. Some women really get off on a very masculine man with bright red lipstick and false eyelashes. This is done all in private and not for public viewing.
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I love breasts so I need them and prefer a pre-op transexual but sometimes if he looks passable, it doesn't matter. Like Jamie French...

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Many providers seem to have fantasies of being with another woman while providing their service. If the male is willing to crossdress to suit the provider's desires and fantasies, it can make the session very hot. Love to hear from providers who cross dress their clients for their own sexual fantasies. Breasts on a man seems to be a big turn on for many.
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  • R.M.
  • 10-10-2010, 07:36 PM
I love breasts so I need them and prefer a pre-op transexual but sometimes if he looks passable, it doesn't matter. Like Jamie French...

Originally Posted by flaunt
Yep notice the blue eye shadow and red lip stick...Just not a cross dresser...
I have been helping crossdressers for well over 20 years, and understand their struggle to live a life of being their authentic self and battling with the Femme side as well.
I help bring out that womderful femme and do role-play while they are dressed "en-femme."
Really fun for all.