Friends with Benefits

I had FWB before, a long long time ago with a girl who also in local theater with me. Seems most of the women who are drawn to theater are very romantic, and most of the dudes are very gay. So there were actually a few of them I was boning. But one in particular had a guy she was serious with but he was working overseas. So for almost a year we did scenes together and also fucked each other. But her beau eventually came home.

Are you asking for advice to find free pussy? I'm confused... Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

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I had one at my old workplace. My first jungle love encounter... She was smoking hot. We banged at her place and at mine. She was single, I was married. I felt drama creeping, so I went cold. She got fired, I stayed married.

Now at my new place, there's one I'd really like to get with, but now there's more at risk on my part. Drama would be detrimental professionally and personally. But we'll see... Little head is fucking stubborn and stupid.

Really, really bad idea for married guy to bone single co-worker.

My next door neighbor works pretty well for me when we know we'll have several hours alone. As when her hubby is hunting and my S.O. is at work........

There is no such thing as FREE Pussy. Providers cost a LOT less then that FREE pussy. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

lol i guess you just need to step your game up.ive had fb that would always buy me shit and pay for meals and every now and then pay my powerbill lol

I still find it amazing that some guys think that there's no such thing as free pussy.

When it starts to cost is when you keep hittin' the same pussy again and again and again. And hell even that doesn't have to cost anything(speaking monetary) depending on the relationship you have with your FWB.

Really, really bad idea for married guy to bone single co-worker. Originally Posted by tbone77494

Whether married or single, it's a really bad idea to be boning any co-workers....

This IS another kind of Friends with Benefits though. You get YOUR benefit, and as a friend, you'll help the lady to pay her bills. That's a benefit to her. Thank you for your friendship! :-)

FRIENDS with benefits ... it sounds like you are looking for a hook up with no commitment. How do you find a FWB relationship ... start with your FRIENDS. who do you have a mutual attraction with. Do they return it? Are they on the same page as you (ie- interested in the physical without the emotional bullshit)? ASK them. Sometimes they get mad walk away and avoid you, but at 11pm when they just got dumped by their BF and they need someone to tell them they are desirable your phone rings and you hear, "can I come over tonight!" Sometimes they are into it and it gets started right away ... and sometimes they never call and avoid you ... the question is who in your FRIENDS fits and bill and who in your FRIENDS are you willing to risk ...

Does "friends with benefits" or loosely "fuck buddies" type cases exists anymore these days? Guys and girls, does any of you have this setup and if so how is the experience? Also, share if you found this type of benefits partner outside your friends circle and rather a total stranger? How did you pull it off? Originally Posted by munnabhai

Of course it exists. Always has and always will. It's way more work than seeing a provider, and setting boundaries is a critical thing, or else the FWB situation can go off in a direction that you may not want.

Right now, I have two FWBs. I met both through outside interests I have; I'd communicated with each for weeks, and the chemistry was obvious after we met IRL for lunch. I'd say I see one of them maybe twice a month, about half the time socially, and about half the time BCD. The other I see once every few months for an afternoon of no-holds-barred fun.

These situations pop up out of nowhere, and disappear suddenly. Enjoy them when they happen.

I have been a widower for almost 11 years. After my late wife passed I decided that dating was a pain and the ROI in the hobby was far greater and a hell of a lot more fun. So In 10 years of hobbying I have found three ladieswith whom I totally clicked which led to some nice benies.

Let's preface this by saying that these occurrences happened because of genuine chemistry and some mutual enjoyment.

Used to see a girl when I lived in New York. Started at full price. We had so much fun together she gave me a substantial discount. Then price went down to $100. Then she would call and aslk to come over to hang out. This led to free sessions a couple times a week. She would even bring her best friend over for doubles. Eventually other personal demons got the best of her and she left town.

When living in Dallas I started seeing another lady there in the hobby. Our chemistry was off the hook! We were close in age and our sexual proclivities were just about identical. I was a regular paying customer but on several occasions when she was horny and she wanted to play she would invite me over to satisfy her---at no charge.

Same thing happens in Dallas. A beautiful blonde well known provider and I got on together extremely well. Started with time going over, then two hours for one, and then few occasional freebies.

Now take this into consideration. There was always chemistry. There was a connection. I treated them well and vice versa. But most importantly I never asked for the arrangement nor asked for special treatment. It just happened over time. So yes it can happen but I suggest you let it take its natural course.

This IS another kind of Friends with Benefits though. You get YOUR benefit, and as a friend, you'll help the lady to pay her bills. That's a benefit to her. Thank you for your friendship! :-) Originally Posted by samantha thom

And I have been wanting to help pay your bills for some time, We just haven't been in the same town's at the same time

As for FWB sure it happens, but most often it's a convenience thing. Not that I had a problem with either, just keep it real

There is no such thing as FREE Pussy. Providers cost a LOT less then that FREE pussy. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

Speak for yourself guy.

I guess free is in the eye of the beholder.