Time to Vent!!!!

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Guy 2 didn't ncns, he responded to the text and continued to communicate. He could have jumped in for a quick shower. That shit happens and comes with the territory.

Now the guy sticking a needle in his dick. If he is sticking a needle in then there is bound to be a trace of blood coming out. Now we all know the risks(hopefully) and know how to minimize them but when someone does something unexpected like that and doesn't tell you, how can you take preventative measures? Not good IMO.
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.....Now the guy sticking a needle in his dick. If he is sticking a needle in then there is bound to be a trace of blood coming out. Now we all know the risks(hopefully) and know how to minimize them but when someone does something unexpected like that and doesn't tell you, how can you take preventative measures? Not good IMO. Originally Posted by boardman
Good point! But just FYI, the needle they use for these injections is a 30 gauge ultrafine, very, VERY tiny intrusion, usually no bleeding IF they did it right, and a good wash should take care of it, so the safety risk would be about the same as any BBBJ.

(Okay, I confess; I do have some medical experience. I did a stint in a rest home a few years back as a night nurse assistant. You'd be surprised what some of the old codgers would do for a woody, or what they offered for the wood to be harvested. "No, I don't want your lifetime supply of Depends, and that isn't what they mean by Poligrip!")
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Max, What do I get if I just drive around the loop a few times before seeing you? Originally Posted by boardman
Well just assuming here but taking a trip around the loop in this weather u'd get sweaty and bored plus a warm washcloth waiting for u lol no doubt about that one
Good point! But just FYI, the needle they use for these injections is a 30 gauge ultrafine, very, VERY tiny intrusion, usually no bleeding IF they did it right, and a good wash should take care of it, so the safety risk would be about the same as any BBBJ.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

How long does it take a wound to heal and is it small and fast enough to keep any blood at all from making contact externally? Sorry to the guys who need injectables, but a cover would be going on that thing immediately if I were a gal. It is those blood born viruses that will kill you. The others are just annoying.

He should inform and educate the providers he sees if he uses injectables to get an erection. A gal who is informed ahead of time will tend to freak out a lot less when a client has special conditions.
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How long does it take a wound to heal and is it small and fast enough to keep any blood at all from making contact externally? Sorry to the guys who need injectables, but a cover would be going on that thing immediately if I were a gal. It is those blood born viruses that will kill you. The others are just annoying.

He should inform and educate the providers he sees if he uses injectables to get an erection. A gal who is informed ahead of time will tend to freak out a lot less when a client has special conditions. Originally Posted by cpi3000
Far less of a wound than a regular injection with a much larger needle IF, I say again, done correctly and thoroughly cleaned, plus there SHOULD be a time lag between injection and skin contact with a girl. Agreed, a condom is always the best safety net.

Hey, I've seen it all, from surgically implanted pumps to vacuum tubes to low intensity electric shock for ED (and I know you guys don't wanna even envision THAT) and nope, haven't minded as long as I was warned in advance. The shot thing throws me 'cause I just don't want even the illusion that I'm inflicting pain on someone, and that's not exactly something I was trained to do or would get a kick out of doing.

Much more fun to suck a shot OUT of a guy.
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Well just assuming here but taking a trip around the loop in this weather u'd get sweaty and bored plus a warm washcloth waiting for u lol no doubt about that one Originally Posted by Max Rax

Touche'
Guest091710's Avatar
Some poor soul imagines you're worth stabbing himself in the dick ... and you're the one who's bitching? The other mutt risks heat stroke for his time in your sunshine, and you're begrudging him sweaty balls? Why choose the nasty option when you can show a little milk of human kindness while walking him to the shower? Not that hard, is it?

Maybe you're in the wrong business? I was all in on your side when the fellow hit you harder than you wanted to be hit a few months ago, that was unnecessary roughness, but it sounds like these 2 hardlegs you're bellyaching about were just trying to get through their day. Sorry, but no sympathy for you on this. The 2 dudes, yes; you, heck no. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak
hmm and i wonder why this board has so many men and so many few women posters. Excuse me, i dont need to be subjected to needles and i damn sure was where i was suppose to be and on time BOTH times i tried to meet w this client.
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wtf is inteligant? Originally Posted by the2101
Yes, it is "inteligent" i did write this angry for a loss of time. However i am not in grade school, find a real reason to bitch.
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Guy 2 didn't ncns, he responded to the text and continued to communicate. He could have jumped in for a quick shower. That shit happens and comes with the territory.

Now the guy sticking a needle in his dick. If he is sticking a needle in then there is bound to be a trace of blood coming out. Now we all know the risks(hopefully) and know how to minimize them but when someone does something unexpected like that and doesn't tell you, how can you take preventative measures? Not good IMO. Originally Posted by boardman
No with all due respect he was a NCNS for the first appointment, and wasnt where we agreed to meet the second time around. After the first missed time i just said forget it. Considering he wanted me to get the room, all i needed was a visual that he was there and things would have proceeded fine. However when he is still not there and didnt call to cancel the first time or reply to my text asking if we were still on till after we were to meet, there was no way i was going to spend $ on a room when he still wasnt there.
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Far less of a wound than a regular injection with a much larger needle IF, I say again, done correctly and thoroughly cleaned, plus there SHOULD be a time lag between injection and skin contact with a girl. Agreed, a condom is always the best safety net.

Hey, I've seen it all, from surgically implanted pumps to vacuum tubes to low intensity electric shock for ED (and I know you guys don't wanna even envision THAT) and nope, haven't minded as long as I was warned in advance. The shot thing throws me 'cause I just don't want even the illusion that I'm inflicting pain on someone, and that's not exactly something I was trained to do or would get a kick out of doing.

Much more fun to suck a shot OUT of a guy. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
Well the gentleman is a p411 member and has many ok's from many Houston Providers. Not a problem w him, and the drug didnt work, absoloutely no blood what so ever. And i guess i typed it poorly, the injection was on the front of the leg and covered. However to taste that in Your mouth is quite alarming, esp if You dont know what it is. He did have a rx for a doc for it. Just should have been more informative to me, so i didnt have to flip out. i mentioned it so fellow providers can be aware, as was i but only bc i saw him.
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Now you know how the guys feel when we get NCNS'ed.
It's wrong on either end. Originally Posted by tikkler33
Yes Sir, it wasnt pleasant at all, and misfortunate for both of us. ive seen it enough to be skeptical about getting rooms, esp if he didnt let me know earlier he wasnt going to make it at 11.
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Some poor soul imagines you're worth stabbing himself in the dick ... and you're the one who's bitching? The other mutt risks heat stroke for his time in your sunshine, and you're begrudging him sweaty balls? Why choose the nasty option when you can show a little milk of human kindness while walking him to the shower? Not that hard, is it?

Maybe you're in the wrong business? I was all in on your side when the fellow hit you harder than you wanted to be hit a few months ago, that was unnecessary roughness, but it sounds like these 2 hardlegs you're bellyaching about were just trying to get through their day. Sorry, but no sympathy for you on this. The 2 dudes, yes; you, heck no. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak
Let's see, oh wait, Lady was a typo as well, but lets continue. We were to meet at 11 text at 10 to confirm. He didnt reply to either text i sent to cancel till after we were to meet. So if i had been there was i to wait and sit in my car for an hour while i waited for him to reply? Bc he didnt show up, and now this is my fault, i don't think so. He wasnt there @ 12 yet again, i dont think its too hard to ask for a visual w a client before spending money on a room, which i also typically dont do as well. i prefer the gentleman to register the room for safety reasons. Pay with cash no harm done, but i agreed to do it, just needed him to be at the location as agreed when i got there, considering Our appointment was an hour late, it wasnt that much to ask for.
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Sorry, I have to hang with DTL on the first one.

The man didn't pay for his fantasy just to have you bring it on here and bitch about his poor health.

You took his money. You should respect his privacy.
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i have, i have not mentioned who this man is, but that he is here locally and i think fellow providers should be aware. No foul. If he wanted privacy maybe he shouldnt be doing that where it can be seen? Maybe not, bc i have the right to know. i stated 3 post above this one, that the problem wasnt w the action but the lack of information provided. What would You think if You saw a provider You were seeing w hyperdermic needles? It was alarming. Yes i too am sorry the session ended poorly, but it wasnt on my end, i tried lol. i didnt immediately get up, take the $ and run, though the thought did cross my mind.
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There is a difference between "privacy" and "outing"

Sharing one tells me that you are unreliable with session information.

Sharing the other will get you banned.......and I did not accuse you of doing that.

If Guy 1 is on this board (you will probably say he is not) he walked away from the session with his fantasy intact..........until you puked on him in co-ed.

You should have kept that conversation between you and him...................or at a minimum, GT or whatever the fuck they call it around here.

If you had gotten up and told the dude that it isn't working......and left the money behind.............that would have shown character.

On second thought, what you did do showed character as well...................I'm just saying.

You took the man's money and stole his dignity on your way out the door.........sad.