Guys first time

Footprints on the dashboard upside down.

Nah, I think most whores would rather bang an old man than a virgin. Originally Posted by yitzchak

I'd have to imagine that prostitutes prefer inexperienced guys because it's over quickly. I don't expect any active working ladies to admit to that, though.

I doubt it. Most guys finish pretty quickly, and old guys tend to finish quicker, which kind of makes why one would rather fuck an old man than a virgin not make much sense. They're both probably not going to last very long. Someone told me that she would rather fuck an old man than a virgin, but I think she was just being a jerk.

Virginity doesn't mean that you are not capable of making someone feel good. On the other hand, just because you're not a virgin, doesn't mean you will be good at sex. Sex should involve giving and communication between both parties, which should be independent of how many partners you've had sex with, because everyone is different.

I think the real reason why whores or other girls don't like virgins is because virgins are more high maintenance and would develop emotional connections more easily. If you're looking for love, a virgin is a good place to find it. I don't think they are likely to cheat or play games with you. They don't even know how. If you're only looking to get fucked; obviously, a virgin is not right for you. If you just want a wad of cash and gtfo; obviously, a virgin is not the best candidate.

Nope.

Your 'first time' should be with that boy or girl in your neighborhood that you thought was cute, one that only lasts a couple minutes, where both of you were nervous as hell (and excited) and worried about getting caught. One that was 'pretty good', but you could've done better.

By the time you start visiting escorts, it should be for convenience. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

I agree with RC...

convenience, yes - but also... (for variety... and the renewed excitement about being nervous, getting caught, re-living 'youth')

I've been 'open' to learn from hookers... but the teaching (seems to me) has been more from me to them...

Girls don't want to teach guys how to have sex. They want you to already know how to please them and to fuck them completely without hesitation. Men are the providers. So, unless you're losing your virginity with a girl who is inexperienced, she's not going to be into it. Obviously, prostitutes are not inexperienced.

I used to think that women would be intrigued by virginity, because it's less common, but they don't like it. A lot of women would probably consider virginity a "deal breaker." Telling a girl you're a virgin is a quick and easy way to enter the friend zone. Originally Posted by yitzchak

BINGO

I probably would have been way better off had my first time come with an experienced woman -- or a seasoned pro. Reason being, my first time came in a shared hotel room on a prom night, one couple in one bed and me and my prom date in the other. Hardly an ideal situation for a first time. Sad to say, there was more drunken, nervous and amateurish fumbling around in the dark then there was passionate sex that night, at least on my side of the room. If I only knew then what I've learned since ...

I probably would have been way better off had my first time come with an experienced woman -- or a seasoned pro. Reason being, my first time came in a shared hotel room on a prom night, one couple in one bed and me and my prom date in the other. Hardly an ideal situation for a first time. Sad to say, there was more drunken, nervous and amateurish fumbling around in the dark then there was passionate sex that night, at least on my side of the room. If I only knew then what I've learned since ... Originally Posted by SlowHand50

And what's your point? You're a 17-18 year old, with 75% of your life ahead of you.

Why in the hell should your first time be with a 30-year old that you don't even know?

Your first time sex SHOULD be not great, not perfect, something to laugh at later in life. Even if it's not laughable, it should be something to improve on.

What's with this 'need' for a storybook first time encounter?

I doubt it. Most guys finish pretty quickly, and old guys tend to finish quicker, which kind of makes why one would rather fuck an old man than a virgin not make much sense. They're both probably not going to last very long. Someone told me that she would rather fuck an old man than a virgin, but I think she was just being a jerk.

Virginity doesn't mean that you are not capable of making someone feel good. On the other hand, just because you're not a virgin, doesn't mean you will be good at sex. Sex should involve giving and communication between both parties, which should be independent of how many partners you've had sex with, because everyone is different.

I think the real reason why whores or other girls don't like virgins is because virgins are more high maintenance and would develop emotional connections more easily. If you're looking for love, a virgin is a good place to find it. I don't think they are likely to cheat or play games with you. They don't even know how. If you're only looking to get fucked; obviously, a virgin is not right for you. If you just want a wad of cash and gtfo; obviously, a virgin is not the best candidate. Originally Posted by yitzchak

Old guys finish quicker than young guys? You're an idiot. No wonder you're a virgin.

And what's your point? You're a 17-18 year old, with 75% of your life ahead of you.

Why in the hell should your first time be with a 30-year old that you don't even know?

Your first time sex SHOULD be not great, not perfect, something to laugh at later in life. Even if it's not laughable, it should be something to improve on.

What's with this 'need' for a storybook first time encounter? Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Wow, thanks I feel so much better now! My whole life is now changed. What a gift of words you've given me. And in case you missed it, I had no real point, was merely giving my opinion about my own experience. And believe me, I've laughed a lot about it in the years since.

Yutz is not a virgin, it is a woman. Older I get the longer it takes me to cum. And from what I am told that seems to be pretty regular for most men. Providers prefer older men because they usually have more money and tire out a lot faster, like one pop and done.

First experience should not be with a provider, would have taught me all wrong, that sex was merely an action of release, did not matter how I got it, who I hurt to get it, nor would I have learned passion, compassion, nor the joy of being wanted by her. The first time I had sex was with a high school girlfriend and although we fumbled a lot, we got there and it was fun. Learning about sex with someone that desired me made it a much better experience than a couple of bucks and see you later, fuck that.

After all my escapades with women, the best sex is always without a condom and with a woman that wants me just as bad as I want her, no money. Now that is great sex!

Yutz is not a virgin, it is a woman. Older I get the longer it takes me to cum. ... Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

^This. Agreed.

YTIZ, you are right.....first girl I was with (late 18 college freshmen...hanging my head here).....she knew I still had my V card and it was months before she agreed to let me take it......MONTHS.....the whole you remind me of my younger brother BS sucks!!

imho, many differing opinions above and likely many only personal facts, too.

Change the headline to "Courtesan" to commence the sexual and sensual education process, imo.

P's are mainly about quickies. C's are about entire processes.

Been with P's been with C's they are all about the same thing - cash. Sex for money with a street Walker, stripper, hooker, courtesan, prostitute, provider no matter only mediocre sex, all should be with a condom at least for me it is. Condom sex can only get as good as mediocre.

Have you ever had sex with a woman that really wanted you? That is great sex.

My first was with a whore...and it was epic...