My perfect session would go like this (from screening til he's out the door):
He sends me a P411/ECCIE PM with his references in the correct format (the providers name, email address, link, and phone number) along with a respectful and polite request for an appointment or availability. I prefer guys who have a good number of reviews and posts, and have been members for a while.
Once he's screened, is informed of my specials and rates, and the appointment is all set up, texting or talking a bit before we see each other is a plus.
I usually tell the guy what my menu consists of AFTER he's been screened. Before that, it's not gonna happen.
On the day of the appointment, I ask that the guy call before he is headed my way- about an hour or so before the appointment is scheduled to take place. When he's close to my incall location, I get another call from him and tell him my room/building number, and wait for him to come up. I make sure my place is neat, clean, smells nice, and most importantly, that I look and smell great too.
When he shows up at the door, I love being greeted with a hug and a big DFK, and we either sit down and talk for a minute or we head to the bedroom to get acquainted and get more comfortable.
Some guys bring the donation in an envelope. Sometimes this makes me nervous because it would look rude to check the envelope in front of him, but there's no way to tell if there's the actual amount or not in there. I prefer guys to leave the donation out somewhere in plain sight.
If a guy is nervous, I can usually tell, and that makes me nervous as well. To make a guy more comfortable, I'll kiss him some more, tell him about myself, rub him to make him more relaxed, etc.
I perform best when I know a guy likes what he sees and he tells me what he wants me to do to him. Confidence is key- if you don't speak up about what you like, how would I know that you want me to do that?
I enjoy many positions during a session, and if a guy can keep up, that's another BIG plus
In between pops, I like getting in the shower with a guy to clean him up, and myself as well. I'll wash his back and his whole body and things often heat up in the shower too.
An ideal client would be someone who loves the whole girlfriend experience and doesn't shy away from it.
After we're done, I don't mind chatting a bit, or just hanging out. Sometimes we'll go out for dinner. It all depends on the guy and his schedule.
If he doesn't have much time afterwards to hang out or go our for dinner, I'll give him another DFK good-bye and tell him to call me anytime, but that P411/ECCIE/e-mail/texting is okay too. I don't really mind which method of communication a guy uses with me after I've already seen him.
Originally Posted by sweet.treat69
Wow, very informative post. Thank you. I'm going to commit it to memory.
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