so i want to be a mistress

Ms. Precious would be a very good first contact. She's been here for decades when others have come and gone.

Hmmmm. Just checked out your showcase. I've got to wake up my Houston clients so I can come meet you, Sweetie. Would love to tie you up. Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

Great. I would love that. BTW I will be traveling thru there this spring.

Just ran across this site:

Professional Roleplay Resource Federation (PRRF)

http://www.infokus.info/

Not just for Mistresses.

Wow, there's a lot more to pro-domme than I expected! I'll learn all of the rules of play before diving in and see if I can find a few instructors here in the Houston area. I've messaged a few, but as of today I dont have any responses. I think being a pro-domme is a very interesting world and I am looking forward to learning all I can about that side of life as a sex worker. Originally Posted by exoticentyce

You may run into more than a few pro-dommes who will not be happy at all to help you learn the business. First you are competition, and not everyone is happy about training competitors, especially in some of the smaller mid-country markets.

But I think the biggest obstacle you are going to find is that they (and this is a generalization here) are against sex workers plying the domme business. Some believe it gives all dommes a bad reputation, others believe that when providers do it, the pro-dommes then have to field and screen out men looking for sexual play with light domination added in. And some are just purists who don't think sex belongs in pro-domme work.

In my mind providers and pro-dommes both engage in sexual play. If it's not sexual, why do they wear killer corsets, stockings and heels? Not that I'm complaining about their outfits! But I think they are being quite narrow in their definition of sex work. It's all sexual in my mind, or at least 99% of it is. Now I won't go down the path of the pro's and con's of offering sex during a play session. In my mind that belongs between the individuals involved. But others would disagree with me on that one.

My advice is if you are going to be provider, AND you want to do pro-domme work, keep the two worlds separate. Different websites, different places you advertise, and keep things on the downlow. You may find it will cause you less grief in the long run.

krunkman, i want to kiss and hug you! Actually, I think it may be a greater show of gratitude if I kick and punch you. LOL. JK. You've been a really great help and once I make the big plunge I will have YOU to thank for making sure I was knowledgeable about making my transition. Thank you!

Aww, gee, thanks! (blushes)

I think it was posted up-thread, but don't rule out getting some experience from a submissive. I'm currently working with a couple of ladies and discussing the mental aspects of d/s and helping them with their skills as well. A good bottom can give you a lot of experience and skills.

Be prepared to spend some time learning this. I've been around it for a few decades now and I'm constantly learning new things.

Just ran across this site:

Professional Roleplay Resource Federation (PRRF)

http://www.infokus.info/

Not just for Mistresses. Originally Posted by Krunkman

I am actually a board member for PRRF. We're still a bit new but up and coming : )

Cheers,
Maitresse Renee

I have heard good things about Mistress Precious.
Linda Spiva-Scott was also a Golden Oldie.

She's a great Lady! A dear friend of Mine. I was actually with Her this past Saturday attending a party at Her dungeon.

If you have not yet been to Her dungeon... YOU SHOULD! It's wonderful!

Cheers,
Maitresse Renee

im on fetlife. Mistresskinx

I know i differ from the popular opinion but I dont believe books and sites alone will prepare you for domme work. I have been in the bdsm lifestyle for 12 years now and lived it 24/7 at several points in my life. Only recently have I started offering ProDomme sessions and only after an apprenticeship. There are less risks to you legally if you do not offer legally defined sexual services; however, there is a tremendous amount of bodily risk to a submissive at the hands of an inexperienced Domme. This is the problem ProDommes have with providers jumping in their game. I'm not saying this is your intention, but many providers buy a crop, paddle, and a leather outfit and proclaim they are a ProDomme. I paid for my apprenticeship under several different people with different areas of expertise and it was well worth the investment.... Financially and for safety. Also, know that a Domme and a ProDomme are two very different things. One is being in control and doing what you want, the other is being in control and doing what the client is paying you to do. That is a HUGE difference.

I know i differ from the popular opinion but I dont believe books and sites alone will prepare you for domme work. I have been in the bdsm lifestyle for 12 years now and lived it 24/7 at several points in my life. Only recently have I started offering ProDomme sessions and only after an apprenticeship. There are less risks to you legally if you do not offer legally defined sexual services; however, there is a tremendous amount of bodily risk to a submissive at the hands of an inexperienced Domme. This is the problem ProDommes have with providers jumping in their game. I'm not saying this is your intention, but many providers buy a crop, paddle, and a leather outfit and proclaim they are a ProDomme. I paid for my apprenticeship under several different people with different areas of expertise and it was well worth the investment.... Financially and for safety. Also, know that a Domme and a ProDomme are two very different things. One is being in control and doing what you want, the other is being in control and doing what the client is paying you to do. That is a HUGE difference. Originally Posted by atxdream

Well said!