ladies why don't you allow fingers( FIV)?

If there will be daty then the male should tenderly and slowly explore. The true courtesan will wet his finger-s,for him. This is part of foreplay and insures no veneral warts on lips or tounge.

If there will be bbbj then the female should playfully look that tool over throughly. Might prevent herpies or those warts again.

And, yes--please wash your hands beforehand. Originally Posted by Lucyny

And yet again, another request from the Providers for something I thought all the guys did as a regular thing. Of course you wash your hands first. Most hotels have a bathroom somewhere near the lobby/elevator area. I wash my hands there first before I go up and knock on the lady's door. On occasion if I've had a busy day at work and might be just a touch "whiff", even after my morning shower, I often ask to take a quick rinse before we start just to be sure.

I guess it takes all kinds in the hobby.

Ohh, and manicure/pedicure monthly. I enjoy the pampering and it prevents problems of scratching the ladies.

Of course, everything depends on the particular lady you're dealing with. Everyone has their own preferences. That's the most important thing to remember, dealing with women (whom you honestly hope to please)--not a one of them's like another. You can get general advice, but the only place you'll learn how to please a given lady is from that lady. Originally Posted by Lucyny

Realizing this has put me ahead of the curve of guys that are twice my age sometimes.

I always ask before dipping the fingers in, some women give an enthusiastic "please!" while other simply say "I don't really like it". In either case it definitely avoids any misunderstandings or discomfort for the ladies and it only takes 2 seconds to ask and get a reply.

somebody with HIV can prick his finger and pass it along maliciously. has happened before Originally Posted by Get_It_Greg

One time at band camp...

It can hurt.
Hands are dirty. (Just in general)
You didn't ask first.
You tried to shove your whole hand in there.
It doesn't feel good.
Nails are too long.
Your hand is not a dick, but you're pounding
the pussy like it is.
Trying to sneak a finger up the ass since you're already down there.

Few men have the knowledge or skill to do it properly and effectively.

It's not a grab bag or a spelunking cave.

Treat it with care! Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

I like fingering but after your explanation will not finger alot, baby thanks for explanation.

You could wash your hands before any actives.If you are really worried gloves can be used.

All of my reasons rolled up into perfect little package. Most guys don't do it right, then when you try to instruct them they don't listen. So if you're not going to be careful about it, don't do it. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

Is this what you are talking about? Do you have other preferred methods?

IMy tip, for the curious, is this.

Two fingers. (Depending on the size of your hands.) You move them in a come-hither motion *toward* the bellybutton, putting pressure on the g-spot. Gauge the lady's reactions as you do this and you can see if you've got the right spot, at the right pressure. (It's also fun to go down on a lady as you do this! All the arguing I see about whether a clitoral or a g-spot orgasm is better--and I just can't imagine why you wouldn't go for both! Although this is prone to its own pitfalls, of course.)

I tend to have a lot of natural lubricant, so I don't worry too much about lube, but--well, it can hardly hurt, can it? Originally Posted by Lucyny

I spend a lot of time before a session doing my nails, making sure that they are clean, trimmed and polished with an abrasive manicure pad. I also make sure to wash my hands (and the rest of me) at the in call. But I recently had a lady tell me that a nail "caught" on her. For the life of me I couldn't see the defect.

I learned the come hither technique a few years ago and use it often and almost always with DATY. I've found that FIV may be a YMMV thing, but once a lady is comfortable with you and knows that you will be gentle and hygienic you may be given the go ahead. if not, you respect her boundaries, but I for one would probably not repeat.

I once was the last tango (or caboose) for a gorgeous girl who was retiring. She had spent the day with admirers having that one last session and none of them, including me, had gotten her off. At the end of our session she started to masturbate and took my hand and inserted two fingers in her vault and told me to gently pump them. It took about three minutes but our combined efforts got her off like a rocket. It was very, very hot, porno like scene.

After she recovered she put her legs and arms in the air and shook them in glee like a little kid because her career was over. I do miss that girl.

From experience-
Guys tend to think FIV means they jackhammer your goods.. THAT doesnt feel good boys!
Had a few guys with filthy nails...
And not long ago had a guy shove his long gangly nails inside me... despite asking him to stop he continued to jackhammer... stood up and blood was everywhere. Had to take 2 weeks off and antibiotics because of that idiot... might i add i was close to needing stitches in my leg from his long gangly toenails too.
Even if a guy is clean and has then trimmed, i can no longer allow it. I tense up in fear of a repeat from Mr assmunch tearing my goods up.

if I shove my finger up you...its gloved. A guy should do that too... you mess up our Ph balance... plus god forbid if she has funky cooter....it can get into any hangnail you may have... Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

+1


...just the thought of nails and scraping my insides.

If there will be daty then the male should tenderly and slowly explore. The true courtesan will wet his finger-s,for him. This is part of foreplay and insures no veneral warts on lips or tounge.

If there will be bbbj then the female should playfully look that tool over throughly. Might prevent herpies or those warts again. Originally Posted by firststick

Exactly...inspect the goods and proceed with caution.

Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies were against this. I've never run into a problem, but that pic of the dirty nails is troubling, lol. A guys hands in general are a major turn on to me & one of the first things I notice. It's a shame not to use all the tools at your disposal.


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I just love the idiot that thinks its ok to shove a finger up an ass and then straight into the vajayjay... SMDH... thus why I dont allow either hole poked by a finger.

It can hurt.
Hands are dirty. (Just in general)
You didn't ask first.
You tried to shove your whole hand in there.
It doesn't feel good.
Nails are too long.
Your hand is not a dick, but you're pounding
the pussy like it is.
Trying to sneak a finger up the ass since you're already down there.

Few men have the knowledge or skill to do it properly and effectively.

It's not a grab bag or a spelunking cave.

Treat it with care! Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Haha! No kidding. All of it!

You gotta be nice to the kitty!

I just love the idiot that thinks its ok to shove a finger up an ass and then straight into the vajayjay... SMDH... thus why I dont allow either hole poked by a finger. Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

That is something I am very conscience of when partaking in that activity. Same as not using the same condom for either type.

I try to maintain cleanliness of my hands but regardless before I am to see a gal I will get a manicure to ensure they are done right.

Is this what you are talking about? Do you have other preferred methods? Originally Posted by awl4knot

No. Every lady has their own spot..FIV is unnecessary to me; I get more pleasure out of external massage, DATY, and dick. How about we just stick to that?

I had several providers say no when I reach down there? Why? Originally Posted by pickupkid

Kind of it what it is just like with guys what works for one won't work for the other.
The sensation of being fingered no matter how clean cut his/her nails are (or gloves with lube) or how slow and sensually it's done and he/she tried it feels good to me for all of 5 seconds ... it just doesn't get me hot/turned on or get me off.
No fiv/digits ... no thank you. Also never just try to jab/finger a woman you can feel is obviously not wet yet ... pisses me off lol (I say lol but i'm still totally serious).