This is popular with swinger groups. They typicaly meet ahead of time so everyone knows each other. Then, its random as to who gets who.
Just one tiny difference. Its legal for swingers. No way in hell I would walk into a room not knowing who is on the other side of the door when it comes to trying this in the hobby world.
I can see this working if:
Everyone is screened and knows each other.
Everyone would be willing to play with whoever they get.
Same rate for everyone.
Its done at a private location not a hotel, motel, etc
3-4 couples max I would think.
It would take a very special group of folks for me to even consider this. And, I see so much risk I doubt even then.
Hello Dallas! I just typed this beautiful and long response and upon posting it I ended up deleting it! Ugh! Let me see if I can redo it with justice.
Yes, I have been successful at throwing these parties. Everyone has had a great time and look forward to more.
I saw a few people try to plan these and they all fell by the wayside. I think some of the prior issues were that not just one or two people were incharge of decision making so it became difficult to navigate everyones schedules and ideas. Also, the response was very overwhelming and there was no cut off on how many.
So the first one I threw was only 3 guys and 3 gals. I needed to keep it small so I could also learn all the hiccups. It went perfectly. Everyone had a great time!
Here's what worked for me (I realize y'all are a much bigger community but maybe it can still help)...
*When I announced the party I asked for all interested ladies to respond first. I wanted to get the line up completed first so the gents could decide if they were interested or not. Only respected ladies that were reliable. No BP's.
*Once I got the line up announced I posted allowing the gents to join. By this time I had 3 dates picked approx 3 weeks out so everyone could plan. I asked for "absolute no" dates so I could narrow down the best day/time. (Usually a week day and around midday) I also personally screened the gents as if I were screening for myself. This is very important and anyone assigned this task needs to be trusted and experienced for everyones safety.
*Everyone undersetood that the hour spent mingling was considered OTC. The gents were happy to cover drinks and appetizers and the ladies enjoyed an oppurtunity to meet and mingle with people they may not have otherwise been able to. The hour goes fast so everyone is highly encouraged to arrive on time.
*The incall is near the mingling location so the ladies can head out approx 20 mins ahead of the gents and go to their already prepared place.
*Everyone, including the ladies, donated 20.00 - 30 for the rooms. The ladies then have the room the rest of the day. All to their benefit. Should the response be awesome there's always a chance of having an evening party as well.
Thanks babe I knew I could get a bunch of answers from you. I just figured I would never get to Austin for a key party and wondered if we could get one up here in the mid cities. Dallas is off to the east and the mid cities is big enough to go on it's own. So I guess the idea is to start small three couples to start and if that goes OK we can expand to more. Is there any interest from three ladies to start with?
Thank you Maxeen, that covered a lot of objections.
It makes sense to keep the group small and with ladies who may have similar market appeal. (ie: three spinners, milfs, bbws, etc.)
The ladies are free to get their own rooms but for the sake of streamlining everything I got them. I had a great rate at a place in Austin so I only requested a 20.00 reimbursement per person.
Perhaps the ladies aren't following this thread as much now and you may want to begin an announcement to begin planning in a fresh thread?