my response to txnerd

Bridgette Ann, I do feel your pain. I have been there

I have come to the conclusion that you just never know what an individual is going through and sometimes they themselves are also having a bad day and that the "No" possibly had nothing to do with you.

I agree wholeheartedly that a hobbyist should mention any issues before leaving. Though awkward, it is understandable to mention it was not the greatest and 9 times out of 10, the provider will gladly give at least a partial refund or schedule a make up session. I know I would.

And likewise, you never know if a provider is just having a bad day. We are humans and sometimes we stab our eyes with eyeliner pencils right before an appointment!
I have done that! It hurts!

I myself just had an appointment and about 20 minutes before he was due to arrive, I got some upsetting news about an ill family member.
To say I was "no longer in the mood" would be an understatement.
But he had driven all the way from FT.Worth and took a half day off of work.
Is it better to cancel someone 20 min before an appointment or soldier on?
I chose to go forward and all ended well and he was happy but I know that I was not really on my "A" game..

It's important to remember that we providers also have bad days, get bad news, wake up tired, work thorough headaches and stomach aches and if you sense something is off..just tell us! We'lll make it right!

Thank you for the support everyone!!!

BA I've yet to book with you but one thing I'm sure of is that you represent very well from the photos youve posted. I've never seen any evidence of trickery in your photos or tricky angles to hide your body. You seem to be a woman who embraces your shape / features not one that hides them to fool others. That self confidence is one of the sexiest things of all.

awwww thank you so much Corona

Bridgett Ann...I think you got shafted in this one!

I would not give him any donation back. He got his nut and did not do his due diligence prior to making the appointment.

Heck no I wouldn't give him a penny back. Hang in the girl and keep your chin up.

You giving him money back won't do anything but make your wallet lighter. He clearly didn't do his homework and the anus was on him to schedule with someone who body type he prefered.

I like how the issue of size/body type keeps coming up, yet question(s) asked pertaining to it have yet to be answered. There's some reading comprehension issues going on here. Lots of dog piling going on for naught.

You giving him money back won't do anything but make your wallet lighter. He clearly didn't do his homework and the anus was on him to schedule with someone who body type he prefered. Originally Posted by Boltfan

Most apropos autocorrect?

Do not give any donation back. He went thru with the session.

I have seen BA many times BCD and in social settings and she's always been sweet and has never acted ugly or disrespectful. She had to be in a lot of pain to not be 100% on her game. She was wiling to go thru with the session and if he had issues, he should have not stayed.

As for the dog. Many providers travel with the dogs. If the provider always travels, that dog is her main companion to keep her company in the lonely hotels while waiting for Hobbiests. If a person isn't a dog owner or spends no time around them, he will be distracted at times by the scent of the dog and not the scent of the lady. When I see a gal who has a cat, that's the first smell that hits my nose. I don't have a cat and the smell of a littler box and cat are pungent to my sense of smell. Sometimes it's so bad to my olfactory senses that I feel she is dirty even though I know it's not right. But, WALDT.

I don't understand where he is asking for the money back. Does he think he deserves it back?

I don't understand where he is asking for the money back. Does he think he deserves it back? Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer

I think she was just offering an olive branch.

I think she was just offering an olive branch. Originally Posted by JustCause

OK, thanks. Nice of her to do, hopefully the guy won't accept it.

OK, thanks. Nice of her to do, hopefully the guy won't accept it. Originally Posted by Jewish Lawyer

I know, right?

Fuck him, she's a doll