When Clients Change

His financial pressures are not the reason for his poor behavior towards you, not entirely anyway. I think it goes deeper. Your relationship with him could be a little bit above the norm. You have invited him into your personnal life sort of speak, by taking him to your personal hangouts as you put it. Every guy wants a great girl to be with. Someone that he can connect with, to love. To put it to you simply, he may have feelings for you above what is tolerable for the escort client relationship. I think he could feel a bit confused on how he should handle his feelings towards you, so instead he lashes out to supress them. Just what I think anyway. Originally Posted by acp5762
Well put. Some people don't know how to express things they find confusing or awkward, and instead lash out. Accurate or not, this is often considered a typically male trait.
Well put. Some people don't know how to express things they find confusing or awkward, and instead lash out. Accurate or not, this is often considered a typically male trait. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill
Not only is this a ridiculous thing to say, you did nothing here but perpetuate a generalization that has no factual basis.

I'm sorry, if I weren't feeling so awkward and confused right now.....I wouldn't be lashing out like this!!
Not only is this a ridiculous thing to say, you did nothing here but perpetuate a generalization that has no factual basis.

I'm sorry, if I weren't feeling so awkward and confused right now.....I wouldn't be lashing out like this!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight
I agreed in my post that it's a generalization: "accurate or not, this is often considered"

Thus: it is not my opinion, but my statement that a generalization exists. If you re-read my post, the part that reflects my opinion is genderless.



Count me as unapologetic twice in one thread.
This is becoming painful to watch on eccie. Every discussion turning into a premature shot taking match!

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I'm not suggesting Leah doesn't have 100% discretion to decline whoever she chooses, period.

That said it is conceivable she developed special feelings for the gent herself or set higher exceptations for her dates with him.

That is, if every client is (overall, taking all factors into consideration) a 1 to a 5 with 3 being "acceptable to repeat," is it possible that after a bunch of "4+" & "5"-type encounters he has a couple of "2+" or "3"'s mixed in there, on whole, is he really that bad a client? date? Maybe you no longer have that special guy but maybe as "just a client." Maybe he ain't so bad (compared to the unknown, next guy through the door? Only you can decide.

Also, maybe it is financial stress...but there are lots of other stressers: family issues, health, who knows...

And at the risk of sounding more ornery than I normally am, have you considered he just ain't (as) in to you (as he used to be)? In civie relationships, some individuals that aren't good at initiating a "break-up" (& the potential for conflict or confrontation) often (conciously or not) resort to erratic or boorish behavior in hopes that she'll do your dirty work for you and initiate the break-up...
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  • 05-30-2011, 07:22 AM
She was not asking you that. She was asking if any other ladies had run into this lately. Pretty simple question. I really doubt that Leah needs advice on how to handle a client(s). Originally Posted by WTF
I think this is worth repeating.



Not only is this a ridiculous thing to say, you did nothing here but perpetuate a generalization that has no factual basis.

I'm sorry, if I weren't feeling so awkward and confused right now.....I wouldn't be lashing out like this!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight


Yea Ed didn't you know you can take a shot and cover your ass by saying "accurate or not, this is often considered"!

Lauren Summerhill is never mistaken or apologetic, accurate or not, this is often considered.



Has anyone noticed that no one has answered Leah simple question?

They have though offered her unsolicited advice. That is like Meryl Streep coming on here and asking about toothpaste and some of you giving her acting tips. Bless your lil lo hearts!
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  • 05-30-2011, 08:19 AM
Has anyone noticed that no one has answered Leah simple question? Originally Posted by WTF
And you have as many posts in this thread as anyone. So quit your bitchin'.
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Well I guess all us hobbyist just need to bow out of this thread since it was originally do directed at providers
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  • 05-30-2011, 08:59 AM
And you have as many posts in this thread as anyone. So quit your bitchin'. Originally Posted by Doove
I answered it!

Best I could. At least from the other side of the equation.

I'm not a lady, I'll have you know!

Plus I ain't bitch'n, I'm pointing out facts, facts that are kinda funny to me btw.


Well I guess all us hobbyist just need to bow out of this thread since it was originally do directed at providers Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
They are having a hard time answering the question! Accurate or not, this is often considered a typically female trait.


If you (Lauren) and Ansley's answers are any indication of things to come it appears the question will go unanswered. Originally Posted by WTF
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I say just keep letting them have a hard time then lol
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Sorry for the mess, Lea!!!
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  • 05-30-2011, 09:12 AM


Sorry for the mess, Lea!!! Originally Posted by Naomi4u
Yea Leah, from now on just pm Lauren and Ansley directly if you need any advice on basic 101 escorting
LMAO!!! I soooo needed this right now. Comical!! @WTF u are a character, man (in a good way) . Happy Memorials Day to All.
There was a reason that I didn't directly answer Leah's question. From my understanding, her business consists of dinner dates and overnights. My business is different. Most of my dates are two hours.

Now a days so many men are having to work harder to keep their business running smoothly or finding new business. It's bound to be more stressful for them. If anything they are more appreciative of the time they are able to spend with me. They know for two hours they will be able to just relax and find some calmness in their busy life.
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LMAO!!! I soooo needed this right now. Comical!! @WTF u are a character, man (in a good way) . Happy Memorials Day to All. Originally Posted by SimoneLove
Isn't he?? I love it!!