Question for the providers chiming in: Do you have a preference regarding the personal grooming practices of the people you're having sex with (including body and facial hair)? I had an ATF who always made a point to thank me for being bare down there, even though she kept a trimmed triangle patch above her labia. Conversely, my significant other says she doesn't care one way or the other as far as my downstairs region goes, but is a beard-hater and doesn't like it if I shave my chest. Seems like everyone's preferences are different and it's impossible to find a consensus on this stuff. Originally Posted by GreentedAll I care is that you be freshly showered/clean. I don't care if you are shaved, trimmed, or have hair as long as you have taken the time to properly clean all areas (ass, dick and balls). I always have a shower available if needed. Before when I shaved I wasn't a fan of guys who came with a couple of days of hair growth on their face as that was brutal on my bare kitty skin but now it is not a problem. It is your body and I say do what makes you feel comfortable. Shaving is not comfortable to me and I'm not at the age where I want to be bare. I like my fluffy kitty!