"QUICKIE"

Remember.

You are NOT paying for sex, you are paying for their time.

Repeat that over and over and then it will make sense.

I had someone ask me to bring her some food recently. I offered to bring enough for two and she told me I'd have to PAY to stay and eat because, after all, I have to pay for her time. WTF?

Don't get me wrong, I didn't want a session, a quickie, or anything else, I just didn't want to be treated like the pizza delivery guy minus a tip.

I just figured that I hate to eat alone and it would be more fun to eat together but that "paying for her time" thing was burned into her brain by someone.

I guess my time to drive it over and GIVE her the food doesn't enter the equation to sort of balance that out enough to just sit and eat? Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Geez. Unbelievable. Please tell me you did not bring the food or at the very least, you made her reimburse you for it if you did so. If it's all about money and time, that works both ways if someone is that dismissive of your time and efforts when you are going out of your way to help someone.

I always thought pizza/food delivery guys always got laid after they brought food to a woman's home if she is by herself and that was considered the tip. It's disappointing to finally find out after all of these years that porn is not based on real life.

As many have already said Chelsea, do what makes you comfortable because it's your life to live.

donnie if it takes 30mins to get you pants off i cant imagin anything that can be much more fun than that anything after that is just icing on the cake, at any rate rest asure you sent me to bed with a smile on my face.XOXO chelsea Originally Posted by chelsea simms

Well Thank you very much kind lady. And your BBBJ DT is world-class, don't let ANYONE tell you different. Hopefully I'll do better when I see ya next.

A B&G quickie is OK but for me anything other than that seems like a waste of time and money for both participants. Then again, if the Provider and Hobbyist are OK with it then it's a wonderful thing!

I didn't know 30min session counts as a quickie. Originally Posted by gregory_m2003

Dude, seriously? I don't do anything less than 30 minutes, so this is my quickie. But if you think about the concept of GFE, it's impossible to receive that in 30 minutes. Sometimes it's hard to do it in 60. But look at the 30 minute session...

5 minute get to know you chat
5 minute undressing each other
5 minute DATY (maybe-or add the 5 minutes to something below)
5 minute BJ
5 minute pump it
5 minute clean up and get dressed

So you are telling me that's not a quickie? I have yet to meet a man who doesn't want his dick sucked before sticking it in. So with all that, men still try to squeeze in passion, romance, kissing, touching, other GFE components. You figure it out.

Meg

Dude, seriously? I don't do anything less than 30 minutes, so this is my quickie. But if you think about the concept of GFE, it's impossible to receive that in 30 minutes. Sometimes it's hard to do it in 60. But look at the 30 minute session...

5 minute get to know you chat
5 minute undressing each other
5 minute DATY (maybe-or add the 5 minutes to something below)
5 minute BJ
5 minute pump it
5 minute clean up and get dressed

So you are telling me that's not a quickie? I have yet to meet a man who doesn't want his dick sucked before sticking it in. So with all that, men still try to squeeze in passion, romance, kissing, touching, other GFE components. You figure it out.

Meg Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Meg, its great that you take your time and feel everything out. It probably makes for a great session. However, some of us structure the visit a little differently.

For example... I don't need 5 minutes to undress...i need 30 seconds.
For example....I don't always go for the DATY
For example....I don't always chit chat, sometimes I like the anonymous sex better.

So 30 minutes can hardly be considered a quickie.

But I can be in and out in 15 minutes if thats all I have time for. Maybe i'll stick with the bj and the 5 min pump...and pass on the chit chat, the daty, and the other time wasters.

The point is that some ladies will offer the service because it suits their business model and others won't.

I have had a good share of quickies in the last few years and I even remember being in and out in 10 minutes sometimes. You walk in, you drop your pants, you get a bj, and you're out....10 mins.

Just gotta remember that this is a "whatever floats your boat" kind of hobby. And you're right, sometimes 30 mins goes by so quick so you need an hour or more...but other times, you only have 15 mins to spare and all you want is to blow your load with the help of a pretty lady.

Chelsea I have known several providers who offered 15 minute quickies at roughly 70% of their posted 30 minute rate.

But I couldn't imagine getting everything I want to do with you accomplished in such a short time span.

My advice would be not to post or advertise a 15 minute quickie but if a hobbyist asks you for a quote use 70% of your 30 minute rate as a benchmark.

Just goes to show you that the opinion of what is considered a quickie is just a diverse as good as what one thinks is good service and quality. I'm just not the "come in, drop your pants and fuck my face" kind of gal. So spank me for enjoying my time.

Meg

As far as ECCIE provider ads are concerned. I believe the unofficial consensus is that a "quickie" is under 20 minutes...and may have restricted activities.

Personal opinions may differ, but as far as ads go they have to have borderline definitions.
Traditionally, providers advertised half and full sessions...and then multiple hour.
The quickie came about when there was an influx of both providers, hobbyists, and the desire to get in - get out.

You have every right to not offer a quickie for whatever reason you choose but the fact of the matter is that some providers offer it, some hobbyists want it, and it works out in the end for both parties involved.

You have every right to not offer a quickie for whatever reason you choose but the fact of the matter is that some providers offer it, some hobbyists want it, and it works out in the end for both parties involved. Originally Posted by dentonseek

I sooooo freaking hate when people twist my words.

Dude, I'm in no way arguing anything about a quickie. I'm not knocking anyone who offers B&G. I have done it in the past. I do offer quickies. It's just that "my" quickie session is 30 minutes. And as with other "unofficial standards", activities are limited. I'm merely stating that is rushed enough for me, that 15 minute sessions don't work for "me." I don't give a rats ass if women offer 1 minute sessions.

You originally stated:

I'd imagine that anyone who's looking for a 10-15 minute quickie isn't really looking for the full GFE experience although a few would like to try. Originally Posted by dentonseek

My original post was, if you had read it, geared towards men wanting GFE services during the quickie session, and my stating that it's not possible. I offered the breakdown only as an example to why GFE is not possible in 30 minutes (my quickie). It has nothing to do with anything else. But rest assured, when I did offer 15 minute B&G sessions, they STILL wanted GFE. I was only agreeing with the "a few would like to try" statement you made.

Sheesh.

Providers have the right to offer any services and length of time as they wish; as do guys who are looking for certain services or length of time.

I've have 2 and 3 hour sessions with a lady. But I've also have B & G session with a girl as well. It was a 15 minute Quickie session but I was able to pop twice. The girl saw it as a challenge and definitely accomplished the job.

Isn't a quickie, pretty much by definition, exactly what strippers offer at most all the clubs in Dallas? The guys want to pop in 1 or 2 songs (3 minute per song) and the strippers want to make it last as many songs as they can while NOT getting caught by management or vice.

There are guys who simply want a nice handjob from a hot provider and the clubs give the eye candy, the musci and the darkness for just such an event. It may cost them 20 or 40 for just the handjb and everyone is happy. no pun intended.

Other prefer the fast BBBJ CIM in the same setting. Nothing beats getting a BJ in a club while a hot girl is on stage and the heavy bass beat is rocking your entire body as the stripper deep throats you. Sorry, but I have yet to see a provider who can provide that exact same experience at any incall. Especially the voyeur aspect with others around.

HH, I’m not sure why, but it seems like there is a lot of “lost in translation” going on here.

I’m not twisting your words…or not trying to.
It doesn’t matter if you think a quickie is 30 minutes or if your quickie IS 30 minutes, that is not relevant. That means any provider can say she provides a 45 minute Quickie because her usual sessions are a 2 hour minimum. In her eyes, it’s a quickie, but from a client stand point, its not. Since the standards for a session are half (30 min), full (1hr), or multiple. The quickie is below the half hour session.
The reason I stated that the consensus for a quickie is 20 minutes or less is because the time constraints do matter, the quickie is because we don’t exactly have half an hour to spend with you. So having a 30 min quickie isn’t exactly a quickie…it’s a half hour session.
The part where I said “I'd imagine that anyone who's looking for a 10-15 minute quickie isn't really looking for the full GFE experience although a few would like to try.” Was not to imply that they would try to push the envelope and get more out of you than you’re offering. It was to imply that they would push the clock to the very last second in order to fit all the GFE activities into the 10-15 minute window. I understand that you stated your quickie session is NOT gfe…but some ladies do offer GFE during the quickie since it’s a shortened period of time, not a shortened list of allowed activities. We’re paying for time. So I wasn’t twisting your words, I think I just didn’t get my point across well.
So when you offered a 15 minute B&G session, you restricted both the time and the activity, there is no question about that…and with the client pushing for more activity, you just have to say “sorry”…but that’s not what I was referring to.

If you have a 15 minute “quickie” I would expect it to be 15 minutes with you where I can do anything you normally do, unless otherwise specified. With that said, even if I have the opportunity for DFK, DATY, etc, etc….I may still opt, which I personally do, for a bj and then head out the door.

Sorry if I wasn’t clear but I didn’t want to leave this as is and have you feel like I was attacking you or demeaning the way you do business. I have no issue with your structure and may even want to partake in your sweet offerings sometime.

As DentonSeek pointed out, as far as I know quickie is usually a 15 to 20 min session. That is the point I was trying to make.

I can't understand providers who cut down on list of activities if the session is shorter. As soon as I schedule a session less than an 1hr, they jump straight into BJ and CFS without even considering what I really want. What if I just wanted only LFK, cuddling and titty worship and nothing else?

Their aim seems to be just getting that pop out of me as quickly as possible and push me out of the door. In that case they need to advertise as so much for 1 pop rather than 30mins, 1hr etc.

Fuck the quickies! I need passion and a minimum of two hours for our tryst.

Fuck the quickies! I need passion and a minimum of two hours for our tryst. Originally Posted by Neotek

You remember how you used to walk into a grocery store and eat a grape before you bought the bunch. Maybe it can be used to your advantage as well.