fbsm tips and tricks of the trade

Here is my wish list for the perfect FBSM:
-A massage that feels like a massage (Doesn't have to be RMT quality but at the end, you feel like you have had a massage) Originally Posted by atxwrx

Why shouldn't one be able to expect RMT quality massage in a FBSM session? Maybe I am biased, because I do have that training - which I shelled out a couple thousand dollars for. When I was working on the West Coast and FBSM became a viable alternative for the serious hobbyist, some escorts began offering FBSM when they were otherwise "indisposed" to keep the money coming in. Basically, they offered a really bad backrub with a mediocre manual finish, (at least from what I read), or tried to upsell to another option.

I have no problem with a provider expanding her range of services. Just don't do a half-ass job of it and lower the bar (or expectation) of quality. That benefits no one.

I agree with you on quality expectations. The FBSM providers I keep going back to are the ones who have the therapeutic skills on the same level with the erotic ones... or higher. I've met a few over the years and they're awesome.

I know of an RMT that does FBSM. She offers it as "okay, we're done now. Would you like a gift of a genital massage for our mutual pleasure?" No offer of sexual activity for money, it's just consenting adults doing what we sometimes do.

I LOOOVE giving massages. Really want to take some classes to learn pressure points and what not. BUT i have many guys who see me every week for a massage. I have strong hands that can be soft as well...