Okay I'll try to answer everything best I can (having a rough time right now so please excuse my bitterness)
Well isn't that nice of him Did you mean second job? How would he manage to focus on a military career and another job. That's a lot to balance.
Originally Posted by gimme_that
Yes his civilian job. He was a corrections officer for a while and since we've been together he told me how much he hated it. I agreed to let him quit and to pick up the bills until he finds another job. Since he's only in the reserves, he wasn't making money from the military unless he was on orders. He never got another civilian job because he's sargent put him on full orders to work on base since my business was pretty low. So it's not like he was just sitting around playing video games all day while I was out selling my ass.
Yeah he don't have to work, more hours but insist and support that his girl does this to supplement the loss of income. Well isn't that sweet........making out like a pimp
No offense I meant that in the slang sense, not literally........
Originally Posted by gimme_that
He's one dorky pimp, I'll tell you that. If he was anything like a pimp, I wouldn't be getting ANY business. He thinks I should charge $500 a hour and make guys sign a contract...again he's weird.
In earlier posts you said your motivation was college money as you were a college student. Since you will be married that portion will now be free for you as a dependent since he's active military. And if he's deploying he will have tax free income coming in, and it will be increased substancially by at least 15G to 20G more a year because he has a spouse.....as opposed to being a single soildier.
Originally Posted by gimme_that
He said he could transfer his student money to me, but that means he can't go to school on it (not like he was going to anyway).
So he'll make more since we're getting married? I should tell him that, maybe now we can actually afford that house we've been looking at.
Am I predicting that your staying a provider until he returns from his one or two year deployment to fulfill your sexual needs maybe for the time he will be away, is it really and purely financial. Obviously you wouldn't necessarily need to work and could focus fully on school and your career, rather than the risk of getting caught up. And guys still have sex during deployments although its not accepted. The PX stores in Afganistan sell condoms........
And female military soildiers deploying are all too accommodating. Its dangerous ground, and she misses the touch of a man. There's some ducked off spots in there. Maybe they can serve the same purpose for him.
But again not judging. Just curious.
My personal opinion on this is I only hobby when I'm single. Wouldn't even fathom doing it if I was married. But I don't judge those guys or ladies that do.
Originally Posted by gimme_that
I don't need to meet with random guys to fulfill my sex life. If I wanted just the thrill of sex I have a few male friends that are eagerly waiting for my fiance to fall off the face of the earth. This doesn't mean I don't enjoy my job, just means if I wanted a booty call I could get one. So yes, me offering pussy for money is purely financial. And even though he's making all this money while he's gone, I can't see myself sitting around doing nothing. If both of us are working then even more money comes in. I don't understand house wives or live-at-home dads. If the work is there then I'm going to go get it.
I know he'll probably be over there banging the general's daughter or whatever. I don't care just as long as he doesn't come home with sand crabs or something nasty. Whenever he goes off on training to some random state he tells me he looks up the hookers in the area. That's fine, he needs his tickle every now and again just like any other human. We did make a deal that if he wants to explore to leave me out of the process. Meaning, don't sit there on his phone or laptop searching ads while I'm laying next to him.
