Some honest advice needed!

i see what you are saying hun
understandable
i personally don't mind the posting rules i hated the fact that i would spend a bunch of cash posting my ads only to have 50 other girls post on top of me. i just feel like certain people act like the board police and they are not even mods. im not talking about everyone just a few. i just got a bully feel maybe i took it wrong and maybe i should have just kept my big mouth shut ill put my foot in my mouth now lol

Sabrina,
You are a pretty pretty girl. Post your ads like others have suggested weekly and give good service and you will do fine. Good reviews are the key. Never no show or no call if something comes up that makes you miss an appointment. We are basically an understanding bunch but hate to be stood up with no notification from the lady. While we may be disappointed if that happens we understand life situations some time get in the way of business. Just be upfront and honest in your dealing with people just as you yourself would like to be treated. You will meet some nice people out there that hobby for a variety of different reasons.

Jules: Just so ya know...MODS aren't GODS, they are (mostly) hobbyists who volunteer for the position.

Some of the people who are giving this advice that is being taken as bullying or so called board policing have been around these boards longer than some of the mods. They just choose not to be a mod because.......well........they aren't into self-torture . It doesn't mean they don't know what they are talking about. They are offering some pretty sage advice.

Take everything you read with a grain of salt.

I'm sick so I apologize if some of what I say sounds cranky. I'm just being matter-of-fact.

Jules: Just so ya know...MODS aren't GODS, they are just (mostly) hobbyists who volunteer for the position.

Some of the people who are giving this advice that is being taken as bullying or so called board policing have been around these boards longer than some of the mods. They just choose not to be a mod because.......well........they aren't into self-torture . It doesn't mean they don't know what they are talking about. They are offering some pretty sage advice.

Take everything you read with a grain of salt. Originally Posted by Dannie

Wait, Wait, Wait???

I'm not a GOD?? Or at least a NEO?? And yes, Being a mod means being a bit Masochistic....

OK, being serious....

We all do sometimes come across as Know it all or Bully....

So, we may need to look at how we address each other and be a bit more "Do unto others" and be a bit nicer in how we give constructive criticism....

But all of the info her is very good and all mean well to help you learn how ot navigate the board and follow the rules....

Kayla info is very valuable and all the ladies can learn from her.

PPE

I'm serious about that^. This thing could have gone to hell in a handbasket (and may have in the PM realm). But, I'm very glad that it didn't publicly. The thread starter and 214 Jules, being new and younger, could have gone off the deep end but didn't. Since I'm one of those guys who decides to see ladies based on the personality and outlook shown by their posts and how they are in chat, I actually think that both comported themselves quite nicely in the face of criticism. Good job, ladies! Both of you, I think, did yourselves some good.

I don't know Sabrina or 214Jules and I do know Meg and Dannie. Neither Meg or Dannie are mean spirited bI-O-tches spoiling for a fight, but both have been around for a while. Strictly speaking, that and $1.50 will get one a cup of coffee. However, they do follow the rules and, as LovingKayla said, these rules keep things mostly fair and hold the volume of "Look at Me" ads to a minimum. Hell, ladies, get in there, cut up some, post things in reply to other threads and let's see a little more about how you are, how you think and what you know (or think). As someone somewhere once said, "It's Just a Silly Whore Board."

And, oleguy has given some sound, basic advice which, if followed, will do nothing but enhance your reputation - that sort of thing really does matter.

I'm scared of Dannie and Meg but thank goodness I have Neotek to protect me!

AS far as PPE the moderator - just beware of his sweet ass!

Good advice Kayla

My advice - don't take things too seriously or personal and everyone will have a good time.

Ok, back to working the streets - ladies please pay attention tonight to the sexiness which is Canotek (that is mine and Neotek's name combined - we also call it NeoDo but sounds too much like a kind of shit you take)

From one who has watched this for awhile …

Guys are visual. We think through our little heads with what we see with our eyes. We buy the illusion. All this posting does nothing but confuse us. Is she the illusion? We look at the pictures, we read the ads, and we go back to the pictures! I wonder what she’s like! Dang, there’s a review! Yikes, I’m going in, literally!


A friend once told me that the more you know about the hobby the less you will like it. He was (is) right. I would submit that is evermore true about the provider. Who you are and what you are comes out so clearly in your posts that you risk destroying the mystery, the illusion. Why do you do that?


Remember, pictures, ads and reviews. In that order! Never forget. The reality is that if the provider is attractive, provides excellent service, consistently, at a competitive price, she will do very well.


Keep the ads really simple; remember, we are thinking with a little head. Let the reviewers write the novels!


New providers come on the scene and are the flavor of the month. We all want to see them. Many do, some come back, but most don’t. Don’t plan your career as a provider by that first month.


Posting in a discussion area is a double edged sword. It can, literally, cut both ways. It may enhance those ads by displaying more of the provider’s personality and drawing the potential client to her. Or, it comes off a whine; “I need you to come see me,” and drive the potential client to another “illusion.” Every post should be evaluated by that risk / reward standard.


All that being said, maybe I should follow my own advice and that of a favorite of mine from the past when she would say, ever so eloquently, “caddy, shut up and !@#$@! me!” Best advice I ever got!


Have fun!

Seriously, I take that personally...oh damn, I'm on the wrong thread..gotta go...

Sabrina, you just need to cultivate some white knight guys to threADS for her. The WKs can can go post her photos and talk about her in other threads all over the board, even in other cities.

Maybe if Sabrina were to change her hair color, those same white knights could start multiple threads in various forums asking other guys to comment on which color suits her best?

Sabrina, why not try that hair color tactic?

Seems to be working for at least escort on here. I've counted 4 threADS for her already and she is not even allowed to post right now.

It would be a look at me threAD if you asked if you should go blonde but hey, just having new photos and having a white knight do that for you is so much easier.


Just saying.

Maybe if Sabrina were to change her hair color, those same white knights could start multiple threads in various forums asking other guys to comment on which color suits her best? Originally Posted by LazurusLong

Ha ha ha ha! I nominate this as post of the week!

LL,

Wow man, I am guessing you have never posted a thread such as you are alluding to ever?

Let he who is without sin.... You know the rest....

PPE

Ms Sabrina Nicole, You have a Very Good Profile, Ad, WebSite, & P411 with everything completely filled out. You are very Beautiful with a very nice menu. Also you have great reviews. Seems like you already know how to run your business effeciently.

You have got some very good advice here from all who posted. There is 1 last suggestion that i have not seen mentioned here.

IMHO, Behind the scenes communications are also very nice from a hobbyists POV. I for 1 love when i get a PM or Email from a Sexy Heart throb such as yourself. Even if it is just a simple HELLO, I was thinking about you and wanted to say hi.

P411 also have PM's now and even a place for Hobbyists to post a Pic of himself, (Right Click Disabled) so you can see who you are talking too if ya'll have not met yet. (I am still thinking about this feature)

You can Build very nice FRIENDSHIPS through communications and thus, creating a nice REG Base. Some Hobby More than others but, when he is ready, he will ALWAYS remember who was NICE to him.

CG

Because those are the rules. Don't like em'? There are other boards. Originally Posted by Dannie

Was just asking a question did not say anything about if I liked or did not like the rule so I don't understand why the snide reamark. But it does make me understand my some may use terms like board police. Anyway I would like to thank Jamie for her answer as it makes sense. Thank You

Because those are the rules. Don't like em'? There are other boards.

Really was uncalled for.The guy just made a suggestion as many others have.
We all have opinions and we come here to share them so attacks like this are un-warranted.
Jamie's reply was right on the button.
Sabrina from what I see you are doing fine ,just lighten up on the ads and everyone will be happier.
Now lets all just get back to having pure fun sex.

well said looie