I was taught about the pleasures of prostate massage at an Asian AMP in Houston. The older asian lady got me so worked up that she just slipped her finger in and woosh!! Big O Ive ever had. My GF now does it when she gives me her oral art. Either finger or p-spot toy. Originally Posted by ArchAngel10LOL. That is how I got introduced to it as well. Some women still give me a "stink eye" if I ask for "stink eye play", but most are at least curious, if not willing to do their best to "get up to speed".