Someone Please tell me about PSE!!

Interesting discussion.

For me, I think of PSE as similar to the sex I see in porn videos--little to no foreplay, not so much kissing, lots of tongue for the kissing that there is, dirty talk, more vigorous thrusting, little to no embracing, guy with a tight grip on the gal and using a little force to direct the action, perhaps hair pulling, ass slapping, CIM or COB finish, and generally using the other as an object of pleasure for myself.

I contrast it with GFE which I think of similar to the sex I have had with my girlfriends--lots of foreplay and sensual kissing, soft and gentle kisses, licking, and sucking, caresses, a little slower and more gentle especially at first, sweet talk, and wanting to please your partner.

It's not that one is better or more intense than the other; it's just a different style.
Bob Soldios's Avatar
I think the difference can be explained in how it's looked at afterwards. From the male perspective :

Do you feel like you just had sex with your girlfriend (or "A" girlfriend), if so GFE
Do you feel like you were performing and expect that people would pay to see it later (usually because of over the top raunchiness and/or talk)... probably more PSE
Was it dark the whole time, only one position, with no sound being made and you being asked not to touch her afterwards? That's more WE (Wife Experience)
  • YSD
  • 09-03-2009, 01:42 PM
"Was it dark the whole time, only one position, with no sound being made and you being asked not to touch her afterwards? That's more WE (Wife Experience)"----LMFAO!!!!
TexRich's Avatar
It simply means that the provider is able and willing to do the acts that one finds in hardcore porn. Originally Posted by FatManHobbyist
that about sums it up.
travelling_man's Avatar
PSE is many things. It is mainly the intensity of the session, the unbridaled raw passion, and never hearing the word NO to any request. Greek? Yes. CIM? Yes. COF? Yes. MSOG? Yes. DFK? Yes. It is about having such intensity that there is not any time to talk. It is about fucking with ferocity and passion rather than tenderness and gentleness.

It is about opening the door wide to reveal a girl in a sexy bustier, garter belts, fishnet stockings and 7" platform stilettos. She would grab me, pull me into the room, push me against the wall and shove her tongue down my throat while ripping my pants off. She would drop to her knees and take me into her mouth before the first word was even spoken. We would do it in a chair, on the floor, in the bathroom on the vanity and bent over the couch, and maybe make it over to the bed. No hole would be barred and all would be fully explored.

She would never let me rest or recover. She would just kept at it and at it and if I came and started to get soft she would suck on my dick like she was giving it mouth to mouth to bring it back to life. Time would not even matter because she would be in such a lust-filled frenzy that nothing could satisfy her, but she would try nonetheless by using me as her personal sex toy. Just as I think I'm done and I'm laying there, catching my breath and figuring that I'm definitely going to hell for what we had just done, she would grab the hotel phone and call her smoking hot girlfriend and tell her, "We're still horny baby... come over and fuck us"

Does that give you enough of an idea about what PSE would be like? Any girls care to try it?
elpocitopolloloco's Avatar
1) I have had an experience with a true PS. I would say that the experiences I have with most of my favorite GF top that experience regularly.

2) Everybody likes different types of porn. So a PSE will vary from person-to-person. For example, some women want to be humiliated, some men want to be dominated, some women love greek, some men want to come all over your body, some women want to be taken, some men want to do feats of strength and dexterity, and still some want to basically f Ωck like crazy chickens until the walls sweat.

There are only a handful of hot women that can make me sweat. (And you know who you are.) For any woman that can make me sweat; you can be guaranteed you just had a PSE.

Turning off AC doesn't count.
  • SummerBella
  • 09-04-2009, 01:03 PM
I think I knew travelling man once in a past life! Lol I agree you definition of PSE sounds about right at the more extreme end of PSE; however it might scare some guys half to death. I almost think you would have to have seen each other at least once before to share this sort of experience.

Anyway, PSE seems to be different things to many people. I believe that it is a combination of chemistry, intensity as MONKMONK mention, desire, ability and openness to do whatever feels good. Naughty, nasty, crazy and very delicious things!

I say all of the above while listening to my favorite PSE like song……..

All right!

Break me down, you got a lovely face
We're going to your place
And now you got to freak me out
Scream so loud, getting f**kin' laid
You want me to stay, but I got to make my way

Hey
You're a crazy bitch
But you f**k so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on


Take it off, the paper is your game
You jump in bed with fame
Another one night paid in full, uh
You're so fine, it won't be a loss
Cashing in the rocks, just to get you face to face

You're a crazy bitch
But you f**k so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

etc....etc...
LatexLover's Avatar
BuckCherry so rocks!!!! Note to self: See SummerBella ASAP!!!

I think a PSE session is one that is just balls to the wall, hardcore, all go no quit, sex. I agree that dirty talk is a big part of that scenario. For me, it would almost have to include some sort of sinfully hot, slutty lingerie. Gfe is more sensual and a little tamer than PSE. I like both experiences and tend to gravitate toward the latter.


So....who gives great PSE here in Dallas????