Last minute cancellations

It's part of life just another crap shot we all take no matter that we do. You just have to deal with it or take up another hobby or JOB.
BabyDallass's Avatar
Sorry to hear about the ones who got the cancel call on the way to the date, those I think are the worst.
ddepthroatme's Avatar
Several months ago set up appt for 2 hour out call The provider I got undressed & she noticed a rash She refused service As had stroke 2 years ago took time to get dressed By the I reached door she had taken fee & left I would have given her at least 1/2 of fee Kinda got miffed
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  • BK
  • 06-09-2017, 09:24 AM
she noticed a rash She refused service As had stroke 2 years ago took time Originally Posted by ddepthroatme
Bravo for her being cautious, and leaving.

dude none of us want your "rash" , for that matter if you have a rash wtf is wrong with you to schedule a date not knowing what you may be spreading! Clean your stuff up. I don't fault a provider for refusing service to dudes with rashes, bumps, sores...etc. Maybe you didn't write this correctly but really? Your mad cause she didn't want to rub all over your rash????? Am I missing something here?
  • mwise
  • 06-09-2017, 09:44 AM
I've never canceled that I can remember. If I did cancel the same day, I would be glad to drop $ to help cover her loss. It would be nice if she gave me a discount next time, but I wouldn't expect it, especially if she got the room for me.
I've had Solid, high marking providers cancel on me while driving to them. One I can remember said she wasn't feeling well. Just don't know why it took her till I was in route to tell me. I got offered nothing for my trouble. I have had providers offer me specials, discounts on repeat visits. Especially when they felt the date didn't go as well as it could have.
I keep my hobbying to a minimum to not raise any suspicion. Mainly why I only do HHR. Between work and kid duties, I have to schedule same day and sometimes with less than 1hr notice. I know this doesn't work for many providers, but sometimes the stars align. My point, I never have a backup. So if she cancels, it was probably my only opportunity for the month.
My main pet peeve is the crickets. You reach out to a provider and she responds, then somewhere in the setup communication she just STOPS! I'm not talking about wasting her time with BS, I mean strictly TCB.
austin88998833's Avatar
I've never canceled that I can remember. If I did cancel the same day, I would be glad to drop $ to help cover her loss. It would be nice if she gave me a discount next time, but I wouldn't expect it, especially if she got the room for me.
I've had Solid, high marking providers cancel on me while driving to them. One I can remember said she wasn't feeling well. Just don't know why it took her till I was in route to tell me. I got offered nothing for my trouble. I have had providers offer me specials, discounts on repeat visits. Especially when they felt the date didn't go as well as it could have.
I keep my hobbying to a minimum to not raise any suspicion. Mainly why I only do HHR. Between work and kid duties, I have to schedule same day and sometimes with less than 1hr notice. I know this doesn't work for many providers, but sometimes the stars align. My point, I never have a backup. So if she cancels, it was probably my only opportunity for the month.
My main pet peeve is the crickets. You reach out to a provider and she responds, then somewhere in the setup communication she just STOPS! I'm not talking about wasting her time with BS, I mean strictly TCB. Originally Posted by mwise
I'm with you mwise.
Rollypolly's Avatar
Only time I have canceled was when I got there and it was bait and swich. I have learned a lot since then and do homework. If am making plans, I keep them. If some thing comes up one day, then I will communicate with the lady so terms can be made. I have had someone ask to cancel on me but after we talked we were able to push it back a few hours.
Things happen this true, can't stop the unknown
willro's Avatar
Only time I have canceled was when I got there and it was bait and swich. I have learned a lot since then and do homework. If am making plans, I keep them. If some thing comes up one day, then I will communicate with the lady so terms can be made. I have had someone ask to cancel on me but after we talked we were able to push it back a few hours.
Things happen this true, can't stop the unknown Originally Posted by Rollypolly
I guess I've canceled last minute two times before.

I once went to an outcall to discover it was a bait and switch. I just said 'oh sorry I must be at the wrong room' and then I left. It just pissed me off that I was lied to.

I once had to cancel an appointment about an hour before it was scheduled to happen because of a situation that came up with a family member. I rescheduled a couple weeks later and brought her a $50 Amazon card to go with the donation as a thank you for being understanding about my cancellation. She was very understanding about it.

I've never done a NCNS to anyone. It's happened to me half a dozen times and it really sucks every time.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I have a cancellation policy that I enforce. Cancel within 24 hours, you pay me 50%. Cancel within 12 hours, you pay me 75%. Don't like it? Don't cancel. Try me, bitch
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I have a cancellation policy that I enforce. Cancel within 24 hours, you pay me 50%. Cancel within 12 hours, you pay me 75%. Don't like it? Don't cancel. Try me, bitch Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
I'm pretty sure that I would not be paying 75% for canceling. Shit happens sometimes and a cancellation is necessary. If they've been polite enough to call and let you know, that should not require a 75% penalty. Would you 75% provide free services if you had to cancel on a guy?
Another issue about providers cancelling at the last minute: sometimes (me always) we provide the room and we have to take our little blue helper before the start of the session so it will be working by the time the lady gets there (and those things are not very cheap). So, we do lose money and vacation time from work, so it's not more understandable when we get stood up.
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I'm pretty sure that I would not be paying 75% for canceling. Shit happens sometimes and a cancellation is necessary. If they've been polite enough to call and let you know, that should not require a 75% penalty. Would you 75% provide free services if you had to cancel on a guy? Originally Posted by willro
I am pretty sure you wouldn't schedule with her to begin with.
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