Why spend $400-$900+ on a single provider for mediocre covered services?

Some are worth it some are worth more, I think it’s just a matter of doing your research Originally Posted by KellyKiss
I think he was suggesting all things equal, one is just more money. Same age, Body type, beautiful face and same services offered, but one is a ridiculously higher tag. Because she can is always the answer hahaha.
Never under estimate how awful a collective group of people can be with their money. The average US resident can’t afford an emergency $500 expense. Also a lot of these gals that @ or above $500/hr most likely don’t depend on this as their sole source of income. Hard for me to hate on someone who has a side hustle that generates an extra 4 figures a month off just a few hours of work. 2018-2022 was like playing a video game on easy mode as far as making money in this country goes if you were proactive on that front. Sadly those times are over for the foreseeable future and we’re currently on the slow grind back to reality. Things aren’t bad yet and despite what your favorite real estate influencer says on social media, interest rates aren’t going down anytime soon. People will lose jobs, tiimes will get tough and more people will get desperate again. Be patient and focus more on saving or bring proactive with your money right now
Ohh, now I understand. You're not just speaking in terms of price itself, but women who go up on regular clients who met them before the increase. I'm in agreement with you there. I've never done that. I'm just starting to be able to travel, so my touring rates are more, but locally they stay the same. Originally Posted by Kimberly Kisses
Yes, it's not fair to older customers who got in on those much more fair prices. It's happened to me before on here, and what's worse is even after I agreed to the new upcharge she still ends up ghosting despite literally that morning she said she would give me the address. It's also why I'm a bit bias with amps, they are just so much more consistent but that's another rant. Maybe it's badluck on my part, but independent escorts have rarely been a non frustrating experience for me.
It matters because at the end of the day it creates a monopoly for providers. If someone spends alot on a provider then it gets other providers who use to have very reasonable prices talking. "Girl, why do you charge these men such cheap prices!? These guys give me $600, $200-$300 is too low!"

I'm not saying this to be mean or anything, I'm saying this because I've experienced it myself multiple times with independent escorts in particular. What those other guys spend effect all of us because we are all going for the exact same service, so we eat all those extra costs. You can not say it doesn't effect me when the norm for me was 250-300 but out of the blue she charges almost 400+ just because other guys gave her more for no other reason except to play teachers pet.

There is one independent provider I seen recently who basically spilled the beans to me (she is a very cool and sweet woman btw, very honest) she told me she started off with 300 for everything. Then she said later she started doing 800 for everything. I commented "wow, you must be really popular!" And she said bluntly "no, people just offered me that price on their own, so it became the norm. I have no reason to go back because these guys go as far as buying this hotel for me + the service, so I don't even need to be popular". Why go to these extremes guys?!

This is about guys knowing their own worth and to stop overpaying when it's not necessary to do so, and maybe if they do then prices go back to being reasonable. Originally Posted by Ballistixz

This is kinda why I raised my rates. Clients always tipped way extra and always told me I should ask for more based on the service I provided them. My clients influenced me to up my prices. Also other providers actually encouraged me to lower my prices but I care more about what my clients think. All of my old gentleman are definitely grandfathered in as sweet as they are to me and i personally do offer specials and deals frequently so I works for everyone.
I've always looked at rates as a providers self worth. Meaning, NO ONE has the right to tell any woman how much she should charge. Period!
If you think it's too high, then go elsewhere. End of story.
Oh and there are providers that pay taxes. Jus so you know it's not TAX FREE.
But let me give you a different perspective.
Say, just for fun, that the next time you're in Walmart, every female(or male if that's your thing) over the age of 21 is a client. Now find the one that is the most unattractive. Now ask yourself how much would it take for you to make that person so satisfied they'd come back for more and still be willing and able to continue this job afterwards. There you go.
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I've always looked at rates as a providers self worth. Meaning, NO ONE has the right to tell any woman how much she should charge. Period!
If you think it's too high, then go elsewhere. End of story.
Oh and there are providers that pay taxes. Jus so you know it's not TAX FREE.
But let me give you a different perspective.
Say, just for fun, that the next time you're in Walmart, every female(or male if that's your thing) over the age of 21 is a client. Now find the one that is the most unattractive. Now ask yourself how much would it take for you to make that person so satisfied they'd come back for more and still be willing and able to continue this job afterwards. There you go. Originally Posted by MissK70116
Well said...Like the proverb says "You get what you pay for" OR is it You pay for what you get?
Why do some people buy a volkswagon and some buy a cadillac ?
Because they want to and they have different tastes and they have the money.
It pretty much a no brainer.
But sometimes u dont get what u paid for and it doesnt float your boat.
Lot of things and variables ...some like blondes brunettes etc etc.

sort of like the grass is greener on the other side of fence or a man lusting for another mans woman..there is no right or wrong answer
Never under estimate how awful a collective group of people can be with their money. The average US resident can’t afford an emergency $500 expense. Also a lot of these gals that @ or above $500/hr most likely don’t depend on this as their sole source of income. Hard for me to hate on someone who has a side hustle that generates an extra 4 figures a month off just a few hours of work. 2018-2022 was like playing a video game on easy mode as far as making money in this country goes if you were proactive on that front. Sadly those times are over for the foreseeable future and we’re currently on the slow grind back to reality. Things aren’t bad yet and despite what your favorite real estate influencer says on social media, interest rates aren’t going down anytime soon. People will lose jobs, tiimes will get tough and more people will get desperate again. Be patient and focus more on saving or bring proactive with your money right now Originally Posted by BullCalf23
Just curious where you got the four figure monthly?
Now maybe some girls are so fucking amazing and are at such a high demand that 500 an hour more than once a day is an actual possibility.
Maybe it's my age, or poor advertising on my part, or my sunny disposition, but I haven't been busy like that since the COVID lockdown.
I've gone a week with nothing but BS TW and no actual legit appt was made. Feast or famine.
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Four figure monthly? I would hope nobody’s doing this for less.. I don’t understand what the problem is. If you can’t afford someone’s rate, just pass. No need to be personally offended.
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Time is Valuable. A Gentleman should not forget or be naive to the fact thatfor most of us providers, it is our job, a source of income to sustain our livelihood and support our families. I think guys should be as vigilant in their research when seeking out a provider as We are about Screening for our safety and choosing to see the clients that agree to our term and meet requirements. Every Provider is as different as each Gentlemen, I can assure you there is a Worthy Provider out there just for you. It is the Beauty of sex work being unregulated and each individual Provider is able to set her own rate and ask for what she wants to, guys get to choose who they see or not. It's really a no Brainer, if your seeking a cheaper hj then go see the provider charging the rate you think is fair...telling other guys to stop paying a provider because You think she doesn't deserve it...see how that sounds?
This is kinda why I raised my rates. Clients always tipped way extra and always told me I should ask for more based on the service I provided them. My clients influenced me to up my prices. Also other providers actually encouraged me to lower my prices but I care more about what my clients think. All of my old gentleman are definitely grandfathered in as sweet as they are to me and i personally do offer specials and deals frequently so I works for everyone. Originally Posted by browniepoints777

I'm going to put on my tinfoil hat here and say something crazy, but some guys know it's true. The real reason clients pay alot more than the average guy and encourages you to raise raids is because they want you to be exclusive. The higher the rates, the less the clients, and the more for him who can pay those rates. But ultimately it's still up to the provider if she wants to raise or not.
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It matters because at the end of the day it creates a monopoly for providers. If someone spends alot on a provider then it gets other providers who use to have very reasonable prices talking. "Girl, why do you charge these men such cheap prices!? These guys give me $600, $200-$300 is too low!"

I'm not saying this to be mean or anything, I'm saying this because I've experienced it myself multiple times with independent escorts in particular. What those other guys spend effect all of us because we are all going for the exact same service, so we eat all those extra costs. You can not say it doesn't effect me when the norm for me was 250-300 but out of the blue she charges almost 400+ just because other guys gave her more for no other reason except to play teachers pet.

There is one independent provider I seen recently who basically spilled the beans to me (she is a very cool and sweet woman btw, very honest) she told me she started off with 300 for everything. Then she said later she started doing 800 for everything. I commented "wow, you must be really popular!" And she said bluntly "no, people just offered me that price on their own, so it became the norm. I have no reason to go back because these guys go as far as buying this hotel for me + the service, so I don't even need to be popular". Why go to these extremes guys?!

This is about guys knowing their own worth and to stop overpaying when it's not necessary to do so, and maybe if they do then prices go back to being reasonable. Originally Posted by Ballistixz

Heh..

Well agency girls were always a set price.

Apparently those indys yall adore have figured it out.

How ya miss the daze of 5 agency's in town I bet.

Oh well...

Search new ones out.
Down them down.

Sooner or later they realize the game..

Then 400 ain't shit
Less work matter of fact.

J.s

Xxoo annie
Heh..

Well agency girls were always a set price.

Apparently those indys yall adore have figured it out.

How ya miss the daze of 5 agency's in town I bet.

Oh well...

Search new ones out.
Down them down.

Sooner or later they realize the game..

Then 400 ain't shit
Less work matter of fact.

J.s

Xxoo annie Originally Posted by annie@christophers
i for sure miss the multiple agencies
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I bet!
What was there not to?

The girlswere gorgeous. Made bank...

The guys for some reason always wanted to fck with that. I never did get it . .probably never will.

I enjoy the slower times. I couldn't even pick up a kid of mine my hands were ALWAYS ON DAM PHONE! ��

ah well timed change I guess.

Xxoo annie

Still tons of clients.

Need to pick thru some applications again it seems. Lotta big women applications since I came back.
Is that a new thing cause my clients aren't big into big wom.

Beautiful or not.

I have ava and Christy. Bout as big as I need...

I.j.s

Skinnier girls feel free to apply.lol
dont mind a big girl sometimes....just dont get em too skinny....i like big butts.....great legs and feet...and small perky boobs lol