Greek

Wowzers. So how many times have you tapped out? if I'm misreading then my bad. ;-) Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

When is your ban over again.... this time?

When is your ban over again.... this time? Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

sounds like you got that catchers perspective on lock.

Masterful job DG carry on. ;-)

Your 1st.... 2nd.... hell even 5th time shouldn't be with a hobbyist, or as a business transaction to be more specific about it. It should be in a comfortable & relaxing environment.

Mildly educational reading
http://sexuality.about.com/od/analpl...sex_how_to.htm
http://www.yourtango.com/200681/anal-sex-for-beginners Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Most definitely agree.
I am much more willing to speak Greek with someone I'm comfortable with compared to someone i just met within a few minutes.

My experience have all been wrong and rough. therefore I can't offer it. Its not for everyone
But they do have anal ease at the sex shop

Its not for everyone
But they do have anal ease at the sex shop Originally Posted by BBW_Carmen_Reign

NO NO NO NO!

Anal eaze is terrible! It numbs the pain, and pain is your body's way of letting you know something is not right. You could be causing anal tearing, bleeding, or fissures. The stretching or relaxing process can be uncomfortable and is to be expected, but you need to be able to sense pain to prevent physical damage.

Find a guy with a little dik.

NO NO NO NO!

Anal eaze is terrible! It numbs the pain, and pain is your body's way of letting you know something is not right. You could be causing anal tearing, bleeding, or fissures. The stretching or relaxing process can be uncomfortable and is to be expected, but you need to be able to sense pain to prevent physical damage. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

thank you for that I literally had no Clue. Ive always heard woman talk about the product. Just never wanted to see for myself

well now I know!! I'll pass on any type of anal that isn't at ease!! lol

Requirements:

Relaxed mind
Relaxed body
Clean pipes
Tons of lube
Digital warm up
Toy warm-up Originally Posted by YummyMarie

+ 1 more: find a partner that will take it slow til you have relaxed and are comfortable. You don't want someone doing a porn star bang out of the gate.

+ 1 more: find a partner that will take it slow til you have relaxed and are comfortable. You don't want someone doing a porn star bang out of the gate. Originally Posted by monkey man

+1 Good catch

You definitely want to take DG's advice. Start with someone outside the hobby you are comfy with. This will give you a chance to figure out how to mentally, then physically relax first. Lots and lots of lube. Also, you have to know whether your digestive system is going to behave or not, and adjust your prep work accordingly.

Requirements:

Relaxed mind
Relaxed body
Clean pipes
Tons of lube
Digital warm up
Toy warm-up

Do not proceed until you are to the point that the toys are actually an enjoyable feeling for you.

Eventually a pro (like me...lol) doesn't need warm-up, just lube. When it's time, I just use my Jedi powers to relax my body and enjoy Originally Posted by YummyMarie

OP - you need to definitely listen to Yoda-Marie...eer Yummy Marie...

Find a guy with a little dik. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

It took 20 posts for someone to say the obvious, damn

sounds like you got that catchers perspective on lock.

Masterful job DG carry on. ;-) Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

Still better than having a hand rammed up my ass & used like a Sesame Street puppet

Its best to first start with someone with 1.3" of dangling death.

DG don't know what he's talking about!
Of COURSE you want your first few experiences to be with hobby guys!
Think about it, do you REALLY want a guy that's gonna take his time and wanna do it all night or do you want a guy that knows he only has 10 minutes left on the clock?
The hobbiest is gonna get in there and get out, not take their time and stretch you out for hours on end, that would just be uncomfortable for everyone.
Originally Posted by riday

Little prison love fest... ?

Get some toys, lube, and your favorite porn and practice on yourself (that's how I got started) . Start with smaller dildos and work your way up to larger ones until it feels good. When you have mastered fucking yourself in the ass with toys then it's time to try the real thing.

Start with a smaller partner and have a drink or 2 or whatever else you do to relax. Being turned on first also helps a lot. Use LOTS of lube and go very slow so the sphincter muscle has time to relax. You need to be the one in control of the penetration. If it goes in too fast and you tense up the muscle contracts and it hurts like hell, which is why most women don't like it at first. Try laying in the spooning position or if you're doing doggie tell your partner not to move and you be the one to back up on the dick at your own pace until you can take it all comfortably.

It's funny i know for a fact that i Greeked you Kenya... u took it like a champ and i don't have a lil dik....lol

but th3n again greek is my specialty