You guys keep saying "take it off your menu" -- it's not on it. Foreplay (whether it be kissing, touching, talking, teasing or oral)I just posted a thread.. wanted to share my thoughts. I didn't even have a point for the thread.
It was to merely gain some insight on the way men who DATY feel about it & how they feel like they do or don't achieve success.. & to see if the ladies who ran the restaurant enjoyed the customers they serviced.
So far, no chimes for the ladies.
Originally Posted by DianaDeepthroats
Probably the reason no ladies have chimed in is because most of them with an opinion have already voiced their views on the subject in this recent thread started by Maci Lynn:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=75642
And the reason why I and several others said you should consider taking it off the menu is that your initial post does not mention anywhere at all for men who are motivated to do it and feel they do it well to volunteer how and why they do it. There's no request for tips or insight. You
clearly state in plain English that most men, even those that think they do it well,
don't do it well because providers/women fake their own response to get them to hurry up and finish. From your own initial post [underlines for emphasis are mine]:
... I do not like men to frequently dine at my Y. However, if you'd like to sample a meal while I sample your cooking, that's acceptable. But, often times, it's hard for me to enjoy it - majority of the men don't know what they're doing & a lot of women will fake her orgasm to get you stop, or wont tell you to do something different because you don't know what you're doing. (waits for all the men to object. fyi: im a female with female friends.) That's the downside for me, your face is interacting with a very sensitive place & I don't always want a man to put his face btwn my legs.. that's what girls & hard cocks are for. ![Mwah1](images/smilies/modern/mwah1.gif)
... I'd rather have your rod than your nod. I love men & women both equally, for all that they contribute to my sexual endeavors.. but if I had to choose, men would only dine at my Y if they knew how to place & when to use each utensil sitting on the table, because I get off, simply by dining on them....
Originally Posted by DianaDeepthroats
Your post
never asks men to share their tips or techniques, presumably because most men that think they are cunning linguists are laboring under a delusion created by women/providers they have seen. So how do guys then know for sure that they're doing it well? You seem to be claiming in a later post the territory of the expert but don't seem to be forthcoming about sharing what you know because you say that the information is available everywhere already.
When it comes to P4P, I don't have time to teach everyone how to please ...I'm not really thinking I'm going to have to show someone how to do something. & 9/10, anyway, my date doesn't really care to learn, ...
But, I learned how to eat pussy, on my own, & can bring any female ANY FEMALE to orgasm. Men too, Especially men who "can't get off with a bj only" have gotten off with me. Not to toot my own horn, I just feel like if you really want to please the sex you happen to be engaging with, you should know your techniques (&they should work) beforehand ... there are books (specifically for men), classes, seminars, therapy, yea ... sexual education 101 is EVERYWHERE...
Originally Posted by DianaDeepthroats
The point of your posts from a straightforward reading seems to be about you venting how you wish most men would stop doing it and let you get about your business. And that is why some of us suggested that you just tell guys flat out not to do it to you, instead of you merely tolerating it most of the time while you fake it.