Providers - a real orgasm in a session?

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The older gents are uniting! So this is probably a YMMV question but in terms of session experience and activities do you older guys prefer a younger or older provider?
The older gents are uniting! So this is probably a YMMV question but in terms of session experience and activities do you older guys prefer a younger or older provider? Originally Posted by August Black


Definitely want one much younger than me!
Is that a challenge to us who have crossed over into our 60's?......
There are VERY few providers that are my age or older .LOL . But my preference in seeing providers is for a woman that HAS curves and is soft to the touch. I prefer providers that have expressive eyes and a nice smile . I prefer a woman that can carry out an intelligent conversation.Age is not that important as long as these preferences of mine are there . And I will NOT see any provider that doesn't allow kissing .
Mid 60's used his hand AMAZINGLY !!!!!
Early 60s is my highest age of a client whose been able to genuinely make me orgasm from DATY.... With age comes experience! Originally Posted by VanessaDDD
I couldnt agree more.. I prefer men over 45 in professional and personal life.. Just not selfish in bed like most men under 45, they genuinely want their partner to get off too, and a few times first ....

Hallelujah !!!!!
Mid 60's used his hand AMAZINGLY !!!!! Originally Posted by Kiraxxx
Is this your preference?
I'm under 45 and I get a lot of satisfaction from getting my partner off. How could you not? Nothing more beautiful than a woman cumming.
bustybabygirl's Avatar
Many men in their 60s have gotten me off.
Nice to know we can still make some magic!
Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't think my partner being up there in age means I'll be less likely to climax.
No, my preference is oral..

I also prefer men 10+ yrs older then myself , for many reasons.. Many many reasons..

Not to say a younger guy hasnt gotten me off (bc that would be a lie) , just the older guys seem to want to please their partner more often then a younger guy..
Vivi Boyt's Avatar
I think your right kira,an older guy likes to see you happy too and that's always super awesome
As a guy, i don't understand how getting your partner off is not priority 1.
I'm on the younger side of the hobby, but for me,getting her off is a must. In my personal life, I cannot say I remember any specific orgasm of mine that stands out....but I DO remember certain orgasms of my partner. The way she moans, breathes, lurches forward, watching her contractions.....those are the things that get me ready to burst myself.
I actually started a similar thread in this section about provider orgasms, and it ended up resulting in a session with Vanessa and watching her have a very real climax. Hot!!
August Black's Avatar
Wait.... Are we talking about Sex in general or Sex with a provider?

First, to each their own. If you want to go into a session with a provider with the intentions of rocking her world and making her climax then that's fine and dandy. I'm confused as to how younger guys are "selfish" for not wanting to get the provider off. If that makes them selfish then who's the provider and who's the hobbyist? During a session I want to make sure both participants enjoy themselves and orgasm but if she doesn't get off during the half hr or hour that we're together that's unfortunate but not something I'm gonna lose sleep over or make a mission to accomplish. A provider is receiving $ for her time and services. Once again this is just my opinion and in no way gospel or fact.... But for younger guys to be labeled selfish because they don't dedicate a chunk of the session towards getting the provider off comes across as more selfish on the providers part than the hobbyist..... IJS