What defines Getting pussy

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Jacking off in a can labeled "pussy in a can"? (I'm so getting some wine labeled Kayla's pussy, so everyone can get some.) Originally Posted by LovingKayla

i believe that D'Vine Wine [locations in garland and grapevine] will make custom labels for wine you purchase from them.
http://www.dvinewineusa.com/

Having to pick up the dayum cat from the vet?

(hey if ya pay $200 for a 10lb cat then you ARE getting fucked!)

All the fraternal groups I have been in where this is a subject of discussion (i.e. all of them) would expect the term Getting Some, be it Tail, Pussy or Ass, to mean penetration at some point in the encounter. Anything less would have implied that the guy didn't really close the deal and would not count toward his "prowess." Greek would have been considered the same as pussy.

That said, it seems to most women (and many men) I know that any intimate contact, even a sincere DFK, counts as "sex". In fact, that seems to me to be the whole point of GFE - DFK is a very intimate contact. In my experience in the civvie world that almost always signals a lady's acceptance of intercourse. So a woman in a "monogamous relationship" would generally consider DFK or anything more to be sex - and cheating. Some guys I know would, as well, at least if it was their gal doing the kissing LOL!

Regarding Kayla's comments about massage: I could not agree more! A truly good massage - which must include some physical "connection" between the two parties - really is frustrating and somewhat non-beneficial if it doesn't include sexual release at the end. It is truly a shame this cannot be openly accepted and practiced in the "real world!"

So there's my .02 ....

Intercourse/bj- he got some

I'm pretty sure that "getting some pussy" to 99.9% of men would mean
that Mr and Mrs happy got together up close and personal.

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You say "getting pussy," but what you're really asking is for us to define what sex is.

That is accurate based on the question. But I wondered too what guys consider "action" when talking to other guys.

I thought so and it's a twisty kind of question and it probably depends upon who the guys are talking to, other guys or his SO. I wonder how much difference it makes to whether a guy is single or attached?

In fact several here have mentioned the views of the SO which morphs the question from what is sex to what is cheating.

I'm sure that the answer to those two questions is NOT the same for guys as it is for the SO.

Now Kayla you also mentioned that you thought having an "O" from a massage was NOT sex. That's also a very gray area in my mind. For example, is it a drink if the alcohol is medicinal? Is it sex if the guy is there to get an "O"? Whether it's a "medical" massage or not?

Does intent change the answer?

As always, I'm just curious.

Here's another opinion...

This thread is based on a conversation I had with my client last Friday. He ran late because the bitch (gps) sent him 30 miles out of the way. He had a friend waiting for him in Dallas and he was a little worried about being late for him. I told him, "relax you're getting pussy, he'll understand." He said, "well I'm not fucking you so I'm technically not getting pussy."

That brings me to the question. What defines getting pussy?
Penis inside vagina = "gettin pussy"

If you kiss someone other than your wife, are you getting some?
Nope, you are kissing a woman other than your wife, and if she finds out you probably won't be gettin none for a while


Massage and a blowjob?
Nope again, you are getting a massage and your dick sucked!

Eating pussy?
Yes!!!

Touching pussy?
BARELY, but yes!

Touching boobies?
Hell naw!!

Having your weenie touched?
(see Touching boobies)

Jacking off in a can labeled "pussy in a can"? (I'm so getting some wine labeled Kayla's pussy, so everyone can get some.)
Once again nope, this sounds like DIY circumcision

Many of my clients see the massage L2 as therapy and in no way view it as cheating or getting pussy. That's justified by, it's being done to them as a healing therapy; either because an orgasm is just a logical end to a massage, or they wouldn't be doing it if the wife put out.

If pressed I bet all of your clients would view it as not "cheating", whatever let's you sleep at night works for me too, but I would bet that most of the spousal units around would consider it "gettin' some pussy

So troops, What is the definition of Getting pussy? Originally Posted by LovingKayla

I go with the "Clinton" logic.

i seem to remember that clinton said "i did not have sexual relations with that women!" (i wonder if she was under the desk when he said that on camera :^)

and that he believed that "sexual relations" meant intercourse.
therefore, since being fellated was not intercourse, he did not have sexual relations.
QED.

i've also read/heard that many teenagers engage in fellatio and cunnilingus cos they dont think it's sex [prolly more fellatio than cunnilingus, i suspect cos boys are prolly pussies about cunnilingus]
prolly cos they think of sex as intercourse, kinda like bill did.


in any case, there are great defns for "getting pussy" posted above.
most guys that i know dont use the phrase "cos i'm not getting any sex", but instead say the generic line asked about.

to me,
getting pussy is having intercourse [vaginal only].
having sex is any oral/digital/genital/anal interaction between two individuals for pleasure [and there are lots of defns for pleasure].
and delites includes all of the above IF it is pleasurable and fun.