But why guys??

Just some food for thought. There are many good reasons why men do not post frequently on boards they read.
Some people are worried that their boss will discover their hobby. Around here that could cost them their security clearance. Most people working on government jobs, even as private contractors, need that clearance to work. Losing it doesn't just mean getting fired, it means never being able to work that type of job again.
Some people don't want their spouses to find out about their hobby. Every married man looking for some extra attention is not in a bad marriage. A man might not be getting the physical attention he needs, but still love his wife.
Some people might not want Leo to find out about his hobby. That is because it isn't legal here and an arrest would end his job, his marriage, and the possibility of future work. Not many employers will want to hire someone on the sex offender list.
Finally, some people don't want to provide all their personal information to a provider using a fake name. Both the provider and the client have good reasons to remain anonymous. As a client, I also know that there are thousands of clients and only a few providers. Regardless of the requirements, a good provider will always have clients. Even a bad provider will always have clients.
I don't mean to sound like I'm against screening new clients. I really appreciate the providers on this board and understand the need to verify that the client is not there to arrest her. I just wish there was an easier, safer way to be verified. The easiest, safest way seems to require a guy to visit two or three undesirable providers who do not do any screening, and hope those providers stay sober enough to give you a good review so you can see the providers you really wanted to see in the first place. That is a lot of time and money, but it is better than having a stranger call your boss to verify employment.

Just want to throw in there are also providers who have jobs that require security clearance and don't to lose their civvie jobs either. Aside from running into an LEO I'd like to also be sure i'm not meeting up with a co-worker . I screen like my life and job depends on it...because it does. *also ways to screen employment without calling the job (if you're not an amateur)*.

There are definitely plenty of ways to screen.

I've often thought what if I answer the door and it's my uncle? >.<

So there are concerns other than Leo.

All good and valid points!! I just wished this process would be a little easier on the men.

Just want to throw in there are also providers who have jobs that require security clearance and don't to lose their civvie jobs either. Aside from running into an LEO I'd like to also be sure i'm not meeting up with a co-worker . I screen like my life and job depends on it...because it does. *also ways to screen employment without calling the job (if you're not an amateur)*. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I never thought about that I travel and have reviewed girls all over the south east. I don't have a problem providing references but why can't you just contact some of the verified in our reviews? I made contact with a newly verified member and gave references we made plans to meet. I had more background than she did. She had a family problem and said she had to cancel and fell of the radar for almost a year and came back. I made contact again and she wanted me to do it again. I passed. So it goes both ways.

Now that's odd someone you've met before giving you such a hard time :/.

Confession time for me. I had not considered showing up to a date and finding a coworker or family member on the other side. What about finding out your date was a close friend of your spouse? Suddenly, finding Leo on the other side of the door is not the worst thing that could happen. When you include getting mugged by the client or provider, Uncle Leo doesn't even make it into the top 5.
I have to return to lurking or find a more cheerful thread.

Valid and terrifying points!

Awe!!! I'm cheerful!! ♡♡

It is great getting insight from everyone, and since this post gents have been more forthcoming with enough info to verify with, so thanks to all who participated!

I appreciate the insight

Anyone for a tit thread? I got some Holiday cheer for you sir

2 thumbs way up (esp on what's in bold). Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

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Anyone for a tit thread? I got some Holiday cheer for you sir Originally Posted by GigiGabore

Yes, thank you. Tits are good.

Confession time for me. I had not considered showing up to a date and finding a coworker or family member on the other side. What about finding out your date was a close friend of your spouse? Suddenly, finding Leo on the other side of the door is not the worst thing that could happen. When you include getting mugged by the client or provider, Uncle Leo doesn't even make it into the top 5.
I have to return to lurking or find a more cheerful thread. Originally Posted by drwhozat

A friend of mine was seeing a lady from the boards and he wanted me to meet her because he thought I'd like her. I met both of them at a local bar and we sat down and started talking. He was asking her all sorts of questions like where you from, and such. Long story short, she turned out to be a 2nd or 3rd cousin of mine. She started freaking out and I just told her that I was like that Vegas slogan... "what happens here stays here". We never did hook up because that would have been just a little too weird for both of us.

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