Getting the (Your) Word Out

I like the anticipation of a date and take time to set up things when the ladies are coming to my place for an outcall.

the what fun thing is he going to do this time is on their minds.

(miss Alisha can vouch for this) hee hee

Dog / 4

Some really good input being posted. I realize everyone has their own "MO" for the hobby (on both sides) due to time restraints, pay cycles, etc.

When I started this thread it was based upon my experiences with independents but now I'm wondering if agencies do a better job for availability.

The beauty of an agency ( or a group of Indies) is that their menu may have multiple alternate "entrees" or for that matter, some lesser time and price alternates as well.

Assuming, of course that in either instance the booker plays no favorites and the client is willing to conside the alternatives offered.

Lightesttouch, for those that like to book last minute, it's best to pre-screen if you see someone that you may be interested in seeing, or be willing to go through alternate screening to be able to see them possibly the same day.

Plus a request for a pre-screen is a pretty good pre-screen .... know what I am saying

For me the hobby is like ordering pizza. I seldom waste my money on fast food but if I happen to be starved and too lazy to cook I'll pick up the phone. Odds are highly unlikely in 3 days or maybe even tomorrow that I will still be in the mood for pizza.

We're ordering convenient sex. We're not planning a RW dinner date. Originally Posted by Lightesttouch

Wow you really nailed it with this post. Best I've seen it described. Everyone is different but for me this is exactly how it is. It is spur of the moment. I rarely prebook if ever. Just doesn't work like that for me. I like fast and naughty, not slow and sensual. I'm not courting anyone and have no interest in romance. I save that for chicks I truly want to date.

I like the anticipation of a date and take time to set up things Originally Posted by dog soldier 4

this ... i enjoy developing a connection with a lady i want to see ... and the anticipation of being with her. that being said, ads and reviews help build the attraction. for me, the hobby lets me fulfill erotic fantasies ... and i have those ... well ... i can't remember when i didn't have them ... love the slut!

i don't remember if it was eccie or aspd .. but a long ago provider once ran an ad (dallas) that began, "within a minute of you coming through the door i want to be naked, on my knees, with your dick in my mouth" .... great fucken ad!!!

i saw her at a social a bit after she ran it and told her as much. she said, i know .. got the best response ever from that one. i didn't book ... but i never forgot that ad and the effect it had on me.

Wow you really nailed it with this post. Best I've seen it described. Everyone is different but for me this is exactly how it is. It is spur of the moment. I rarely prebook if ever. Just doesn't work like that for me. I like fast and naughty, not slow and sensual. I'm not courting anyone and have no interest in romance. I save that for chicks I truly want to date. Originally Posted by russellevans

It's not the pre-booking. Sometime's I'll have guys that pre-book for a day or two in the future. Sometimes up to a month ahead, if they are from out of town. But most of my appts are same day. But those guys are either regulars or they have pre-screened.

Screening is what's important to do in advance. Screen if it's someone that you may want to see in the future. That way, when the mood hits, you can get in to see her instead of having to wait for screening.

Excellent thread! Unfortunately I have to join in with Sickbastard in that I am horrible at planning ahead. I deserve to be bitch slapped from Klovve and Alisha. I love both you fine ladies. Maybe someday I'll be a better planner.

^^ aw come on, I'm a lover not a fighter

I think it's helpful to provide a loose schedule or possible date window. Example: hey lovve, I might have some time Thursday at 3 and I would lovve to see you! Can I let you know as the date draws near?

Most often that works for me, so long as I have a heads up morning of whether the time will work or not. I think flexibility is imperative and should be respected from both ends. It's okay to communicate! If you don't ask the question you'll never know the answer

^^ aw come on, I'm a lover not a fighter

I think it's helpful to provide a loose schedule or possible date window. Example: hey lovve, I might have some time Thursday at 3 and I would lovve to see you! Can I let you know as the date draws near?

Most often that works for me, so long as I have a heads up morning of whether the time will work or not. I think flexibility is imperative and should be respected from both ends. It's okay to communicate! If you don't ask the question you'll never know the answer Originally Posted by klovve

I know you're a lover. I meant being bitch slapped as punishment for my poor scheduling practices; not in any way shape form or fashion as sexual gratification.

My response was more an embarrassing admission of the fine ladies I miss because I sometimes get so anxious to get my dick wet. :-(

And yes, one never knows if one never asks.

Oh darling, I'm just giving you a hard time

Screening is what's important to do in advance. Screen if it's someone that you may want to see in the future. That way, when the mood hits, you can get in to see her instead of having to wait for screening. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

This so much this.

I like to flirt!