Questions from a newbie

Look for reviews in the massage section for Lana or Tara. Well reviewed and just a great relaxing time with very nice ladies. I highly recommend the 4-hand experience with them.

Thanks again for the feedback everyone and the handful of providers who reached out with PMs. I think I've decided to try a LMT from backpage and if that doesn't work out then an AMS who's got a reputation for more legitimate massages with a +

I think I've decided to try a LMT from backpage and if that doesn't work out then... we all know this rarely does Originally Posted by stevierey1

Stevie, Stevie, Stevie...
Obviously you haven't tried BP much, you have a 50/50 chance at best of having a desirable outcome. You come here seeking advice, and do just the opposite? My experience with BP was 1 in 5, I hope you fare better than that.

The best massage I've ever had in my life was from a provider near the Woodlands. The "extras" were pretty damn good too. But she offers massage + as you seek as well as GFE. Different Strokes, pun intended.
good luck friend
(a lot of acronyms to learn here, AMS= AMP= Asian Massage Parlor)

Let him be hardhat. He was given good info, yet he chooses to go his own way.

his answer pretty much said it all.

seemed no reason for further response. basically was looking for someone to reaffirm his desire for BP or by everyone telling him not to he realized he wanted to anyways.

seems like possibly another younger member. the typical learn by making the mistakes themselves. hell, we probably all have a degree of it in us still.

PM sent

I'm definitely listening to everyone's advice and appreciate any input. My issue is that I want a legit massage first with what's after as the last piece of the puzzle. I don't want a half-ass rub down as an excuse to lead in to anything else. I'm willing to try a few LMTs with some suggestive wording in their BP--I would rather a good massage with nothing as opposed to a GFE that includes a shoulder rub. I know those are extreme examples but it's where I'm at right now.

My massage is usually next week so I'll let you all know how it goes. Still back and forth about the AMP (thanks for that btw) and the LMT. I do think there is an argument to be made for just jumping in but it's my monthly massage and I still need the knots in my shoulders worked out one way or the other.

I recommend you get a p411 account and build it up there because you're less likely to have issues with LE and it's safer and a lot easier to verify both parties.

My issue is that I want a legit massage first with what's after as the last piece of the puzzle. I don't want a half-ass rub down as an excuse to lead in to anything else. I'm willing to try a few LMTs with some suggestive wording in their BP--I would rather a good massage with nothing as opposed to a GFE that includes a shoulder rub. I know those are extreme examples but it's where I'm at right now. Originally Posted by stevierey1

So... You want a qualified LMT or masseuse that went through schooling or some type of formal training that is also willing to give a happy ending? Either you're young or a moron. Any girl giving any extra services with a FBSM, is or has provided those services before. It's not like a girl that spent hours pouring over anatomy books and is completing an internship to graduate and then paying to get licensed by the state is going to be like "I should advertise on BP and ECCIE!" No.

And as for all of you slamming BP. I, as well as ALOT of respected, well-known providers on ECCIE started on BP. I started as a body rub girl only doing what you're looking for, no GFE. Granted, you are taking a much greater risk seeing someone off BP versus someone you have verified on ECCIE or p411. HOWEVER, a lot of you on here bashing BP and are so quick to forget that's where many of the greats have gotten their start.
And a personal shout out to Dorothy for teaching me how to fake a tough attitude on the boards to get attention in hopes of getting some business
Oh wait, I'm ACTUALLY pretty and NOT built like a sack of laundry so I DON'T have to do that

Stevie, be smart and run away from the hobby, and do not look back. Originally Posted by pyramider

Best Advice....

So... You want a qualified LMT or masseuse that went through schooling or some type of formal training that is also willing to give a happy ending? Either you're young or a moron. Any girl giving any extra services with a FBSM, is or has provided those services before. It's not like a girl that spent hours pouring over anatomy books and is completing an internship to graduate and then paying to get licensed by the state is going to be like "I should advertise on BP and ECCIE!" No.

And as for all of you slamming BP. I, as well as ALOT of respected, well-known providers on ECCIE started on BP. I started as a body rub girl only doing what you're looking for, no GFE. Granted, you are taking a much greater risk seeing someone off BP versus someone you have verified on ECCIE or p411. HOWEVER, a lot of you on here bashing BP and are so quick to forget that's where many of the greats have gotten their start.
And a personal shout out to Dorothy for teaching me how to fake a tough attitude on the boards to get attention in hopes of getting some business
Oh wait, I'm ACTUALLY pretty and NOT built like a sack of laundry so I DON'T have to do that Originally Posted by Jaida_So_Lovely

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