For the past few years, I've often had to fight with ladies because so many wish to start "lists" of various sorts and it's always such a bad idea in a long line of bad ideas.
The reason why we don't allow ladies to start lists is because of what I like to call the "slippery slope" issue. I mean, when does it stop?
Let's just forget that the OP seems a bit preoccupied with the whole pimp issue.
I've known of ladies who have wanted lists of men who have asked for bbfs, ncns and for being "difficult". How are those things actually defined? And just because one person is a certain way with Lady A doesn't mean that he'll be like that with Lady B or C.
And as I mentioned in one of his pimp comments on another topic, relationships constantly change. So what if a lady's name was on some sort of "list" and her situation changed?
Or she wasn't and now she is? And really, who cares?
I have my own thoughts about pimps and surprisingly, it's not 100% negative. Close but not quite. My opinions on this topic has changed pretty dramatically over the past years.
I'm guessing that I'm not alone. Regardless, good luck with that list.
I would hope that others who are asking for a copy of it are keeping an open mind an making their own judgment calls on who to see, etc.
For me, having such a list is a waste of time to even consider. Such a list should be taken with the proverbial gain of salt ... in my humble opinion. And finally, that is all my words are, another opinion.
Always,
Elisabeth
Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
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And you have been in the business/industry long enough to know who has a pimp or not without them being on a "list". There are obvious signs that a lady is a pimp or that a hobbyist here on ECCIE is involved with the game. Just look at some of these reviews that get posted on here! If you follow the boards, its easy to see which girls have
stupid pimps (Like MoonHowler - For example).
I do not agree with Pimps and I do not agree with the women that put themselves in these situations. Being an independent provider, having a pimp would be like having a bad accountant or shitty attorney.
Why would I invest my money in someone who is going to [eventually] screw me over?
A woman who gets a pimp to manage her "finances" lacks intelligence and good judgement. She shouldn't be in the industry anyway. She is probably on a drug habit, being financially screwed over, or just in love with her pimp manager/boyfriend. Oh yeah, she is going to need someone to finance her habit money for sure!
A Grown Woman is one who gets a highly reputable accountant (after doing research) to handle her expenses and give her quality advice on taxes and so-on and so forth. That's what grown men and women do anyway when they have money that needs to be managed and invested. But even then, you can
still be
craftily screwed over by someone who has a degree in finance.
But in closure, with this being said, there are many highly reputable and highly successful providers here in DFW that are MANAGED. Thathotnurse pointed this one out earlier in a previous post (Thanks THN). It is a big difference between
being managed, and
being pimped. All I have to say, is be careful who you split your money with.
Woe to the fool because him and his money will soon depart.
MoonHowler, you just took a major hit to your business. Accept, Roll with it, and move on and stop parading this bullshit here in Dallas.
Originally Posted by SD2011
