What can a provider or hobbyist say to turn you on or off?

Get out or I'm calling the cops ! Compliments of some bodyrub chick from N FT Worth/Keller named Miranda.....for some reason, it kinda killed the moment.....

Finish quick. Your time is almost up. Originally Posted by Last Ride

Since I am done in two minutes and napping I rarely hear that one.

I don't mind CIM and COF but I do mind someone saying they want to "finish in my face". Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

What about your ears? Thinck BBCR ...

I draw the line with the ears. LOL

Turn-on: I can't wait to see you
Turn-off: Are you gonna cum soon

Depending on how fabulous, or completely absent the illusion of passion is:
I don't do this with just anyone!

Turn on: IOP - locking eyes with *that* look. Yummm..
Turn offs:
- Anything that makes it feel like a business transaction during the session, which is adequately covered in the thread..

A lot of it boils down to mutual respect and treating the provider as a person and not an object.

Now, I love me some hot sweaty monkey zoo sex, but I never treat a provider like an.. inanimate object, to put it nicely.

Bottom line: I want to leave the provider with a positive impression.. makes the next time even sweeter!

So many things to say here. Turn ons : deep passionate kissing, intimate caressing and stroking while doing other things, that lustful look in her eyes, that feeling when you make her cum.

Turn offs: mechanical, no kissing, gets dressed immediately after, forgets my name.

I don't mind CIM and COF but I do mind someone saying they want to "finish in my face". Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

This wouldn't have happened to take place over a text message would it? Because in is often autocorrected from on. Sometimes smart phones are not very smart.

Turn off: being quiet during the activities.

Turn on: being into having fun and the activities.

Oh, another turn off: Looking bored during the main event.

Hi,

A HUGE turn off was today when he told me he wanted to "finish in my face" Ewwwwwwwww. I'm a human, not a object so no thank you.

For me a turn on is when he talks about licking the kitty. Meeeooooow! That is HOT HOT HOT!!!!
Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

COF comes from porn. Watching that has never been a turn on to me. I think it is an act of humiliation.

Hmmm, talking about licking the kitty is a turn on. I'm pretty sure every woman I have been with has heard me talk about it. Good to know.

Having the women eat an apple during the main event is a turn off.

A complete 180 in attitude after being told "no" is a complete turnoff. Kills all interest.

Turn on: "I love how your cock feels [in my mouth] | [in my pussy]."
"how about i ask my gal pal to join us? she's a great cocksucker, too!"
"right there!!!"

Turn on to the nth: "let me suck your cock one more time until you cum in my mouth!!"

Turn off:
* [actual occurrence] me "so, what do you like about sex?" her "nothing! i'm just doing this so my son and i can move to florida".
* "so, are you gonna cum soon?" [as she looks at a clock]
* "hey there! can you come over tomorrow? i need to make my car payment tomorrow."
* [after i came out of the bathroom where i cleaned up after round one and hoping to start round two] "oh, no! my sister got in a car wreck. a friend's coming to get me in 5 mins."
* "let me tell you about my dogs, kids, horses, crappy car, family problems, ....."

...Turn on: being into having fun and the activities. Originally Posted by Invisible1

definite turn on!! if she's really into it, having fun, and doing what she can to delite me and herself, then i'm there!!

COF comes from porn. Watching that has never been a turn on to me. I think it is an act of humiliation.

Hmmm, talking about licking the kitty is a turn on. I'm pretty sure every woman I have been with has heard me talk about it. Good to know.

Having the women eat an apple during the main event is a turn off. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

+1 imo COF and CIH is an act of degradation. To which, I am not into. I really strive to make my session with every provider I see as enjoyable for her (if not) more than myself...

So my Turn On: Doing whatever I can to the provider in session so that she has as many long, hard and deep O's as possible.

Turn Offs: A bitchy attitude or a provider who is "mechanical"