I actually enjoy kissing just not the way everyone does it. When giving a BJ I'm in control mostly and if you do drive I can still have a bit of say in the speed, force length between breaths etc. But when kissing for example some people almost want to lay on my face or spit alot or may have bad breath. I'm not a fan of the pressed kiss (movie kiss) with all the back and forth head moving. Now usually in an intimate situation you know a person or the kiss is more natural so it's felt out by both. In our fantasy world we are on a time limit and often miss the small hints that indicate what a person enjoys. Making these kisses often awkward (even more on 1st encounters). Now that we're at this place I'm kissing someone who has not taken the time or consideration to find out what I like. ⭐Now I'm not delusional so I do understand the situation. It's not really about this. So instead of coming to this strange space where you feel like I don't want to kiss you, I often take my time so we can find a common ground. Not 12 visits just a few min so it's not an odd face attack upon entry! It's not that I don't kiss but I don't want someone to walk in the room and dive in my mouth, w/ tongue or cock. I just think if there was a little more consideration there would be more kissing. Yes we're working but as previously stated it's probably a girl thing. Though we do try to keep this under control we're all human. I just don't like someone stuck to my face for an hour. Kissing is more of a shared activity (to me) than some others during sex, that are more commonly controlled by 1 person and the second person adds to. Since we are often unfamiliar with each other kissing can be odd if done selfishly. I feel the problem starts when a kiss becomes 1 sided. Also if someone is very excited or unpracticed the kisses can be hard to follow. I try to avoid moments that we are not both enjoying the connection. So kissing comes with consideration! Some people just want to smear faces and that's not a turn on for me. Soft and sexy kisses where our eyes meet and we both feel the connection drives me wild but a spit party I'll pass on. Also kissing unlink most other sexual activity requires us to be eye to eye and breath to breath. This can cause issues for some aswell (intimacy, covid etc). My concerns are more about freshness and being present in the NOW ! Does this feel good for us both because when you get to that place it starts a far more exciting experience!
This is ONLY MY OPINION!
I truly enjoy kissing when we can find a common ground. This is not surprising because I provided and enjoy a very intimate setting. Hope that makes sense. Originally Posted by Kayla Foxx
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Very well stated and explained! Originally Posted by baldbrotha1
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