Wow!! Any chance in a mod killing this thread and let the ladies fight it out in the powder room? Only reason I see this being in an open forum is maybe they want the guys to choose sides. We will never know all the facts anyway.
Either expose who the stalker is so he can be dealt with by the admins (if he did anything on here that violates the rules) or take this to the back channels/powder room. Otherwise your just trying to make everyone on here pick a side in your all's fight.
This thread serves no purpose at all other than to call each other names and try to win in the court of public opinion.