Porn Movies or Music in a Session

yaddayadda's Avatar
No tv in my bedroom either......the bedroom is for three things only.....and tv isn't one of them.....music all the way.
I am usually looking for relaxation and an escape from the daily grind. So, soft, smooth jazz helps a lot. However, if the occassion is to be about sport sexing, then a sound track to Bond movies works for me. Hell, on those occassions, even party "dance" music is fun to play too. I am too polite and respectful to ask you to turn off the rap, but it is a distraction to me.

As for porn, it has it's place in the frat house or to incourage the SO to not fall to sleep; but not when I am sharing time with a gorgeous and insatiable girlfriend. If she wants porn because she can't stand to look at me, then just tell me and I will move on.
TexTushHog's Avatar
Porn -- Never. Absolutely hate it. I can't ever imagine wanting it on.

Music -- I can do without it. The selection is seldom to my taste. Nothing wrong with silence. So my preference is usually neither.
Chica Chaser's Avatar
I'm with TTH. I prefer nothing going on in the background. I want to make our own sweet music together. Definitely no porn, I will make my own once we get going.

No distractions from enjoying the lady and out time together. I remember one session a few years ago going at it in the middle of a session, I had flat out had enough of Bob Barker and the Price is Right. Stopped the session to find the damn remote and shut it off before continuing. Never said a word but I think she got the message!

Ladies, if you are unsure what a man might like or dislike...ASK!
George O.'s Avatar
I would just as soon have nothing on. If we click and it's all good then I won't hear or see anything other than you.
Funny; the last provider I saw turned on the TV but muted it before I arrived. I don't think either one of us noticed it the whole time we were together.
xperiment's Avatar
Just depends on the mood i'm in. Sometimes quiet music is relaxing and peaceful. Other times a dirty flick can help create a more suspenseful atmosphere. It also would depend on the provider and how it meshed with her style. Just ask the guy upfront what he would like for that individual session and everyone is a winner.. Just my 2 cents Originally Posted by ocho cinco
I agree. Totally depends on the kind of session you want. Although friday night I was with a fantastic provider, you know who you are , the music was on from digital cable and I heard "Take My Breath Away" you know the Top Gun love song, I giggled inside a bit when I heard that during foreplay.
Prefer soft & relaxing music during a session. Porn seems to distract me. Although don't mind watching it for few minutes before starting BCD activities followed by only music during the activities....
soft music and very low lighting.
One word.

Music.

Porn does nothing for me while with a provider.
I would have to say music...I just don't think I could pay attention to a porno while being with a HOTT provider
DFW5Traveler's Avatar
I'm not a fan of TV in the bedroom. There are only two things I want to do in the bed, sleep and sex.

Asking for a musical preference is nice or have a type of music playing to set the tone of how the provider is feeling or how she wants to be treated, but make sure it's soft enough to hear each others moans of passion or shouts of ecstasy.
  • Fast and hard - "treat me like a slut" with NIN - Closer
  • Slow and sensual - "treat me like a lady" with Barry White or Sinatra
Or any variation of the above using different genres, Chris Isaac, Aerosmith, Faith Hill, from rock ballads to country crooners to old school R&B.
Guest012211-3's Avatar
What about porn music?

I use the digital cable 'soundscapes' channel on my tv. I haven't had any complaints, but if you don't like just speak up and I will turn it off for you.
Soft music.

No television, no movies, prefer no radio with talk, just music. All distract me from the most important topic at hand, the lady in my arms.
Will Boner's Avatar
porn music.......like Buckcherry or Nickelback.........good shit.

Of course Nicole, you could have chinese poetry playing in the background and it would not be a distraction from the sexy and sensual woman that you are. SCHWING!
I like a 3 Ring Circus with Little People juggling torches and chainsaws.