Is it a compliment or is it gross?

By extension, is it creepy to take care of yourself thinking of your SO?

A former SO admitted to me that early on in our relationship where she had moved away she "thought of me" while getting off. I thought it was sweet.

But other than that, it seems creepy to tell the other person about it unless you are in love/real relationship.

It hooks up to your computer through usb drive and jacks you off as you're watching porn movies. When the woman on the screen gets on top of the man on the screen the fake vagina goes into overdrive.

http://thatsthehookup.com/gear/realt...owered-vagina/

Now I did have an ex tell me that she thought of how I made her feel when she masturbated...that was one of the greatest compliments I have ever had.

When I was marriedto my first wife, most of you know her...satans daughter, that was the only sex I got!

It's one of those "compliments" that doesn't sit quite right. When someone tells me that, I say ... uh, thank you but for whatever reason, it doesn't make me smile.

And although men like to touch themselves while looking at porn and pictures of all sorts, sometimes, we don't like to hear it. We would just prefer that you do it, or do it with us and leave it at that.

If that makes sense. Damn. I'm spending WAY too much time in the coed section this morning!

Hugs,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

+1

Providers dont like it I guess - B'cos they think you had a free session ! LOL! Like-you got satisfied and did not pay for it. Strange and maybe true.
They would much rather like you to see them ,pay the donation and then leave happily satisfied. Cum horny-leave lighter and happier !! LOL! Originally Posted by delimex007

welll ladies do you feel cheated out of $$$

Not to endorse the practice, but how is jacking off to a provider's photo much different than whacking off by any other inspiration? Hadn't thought of it, and since I have enough hobby funds to take care of myself most of the time, I can't remember the last time I took things in hand. But all of us have done it at one point. Can't see where this is different.

Clearly a turn on :

+1 Originally Posted by mikahranae

Mikah,

No offense, but didn't you just go into detail on another thread about you yourself masturbating? Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed your description, just pointing out the double standard

I do agree with what someone else said, about the hobby being a place where certain social behaviors regarding sex and sexuality could be relaxed, and talking about masturbation, IMO, is one of them.

That being said, there's a fine line between being open about it and being downright creepy. Perhaps too thin of a line to walk with a stranger.

Still-asleep - "thats so cute!"

I think it's a turn on. If the girl isn't available right at that moment, okay look, it's like getting ready to watch a porn. For me, I am already hella' turned on, so by the time the previews are showing the sloppy cof endings, and cream pies, etc...Im already 2 seconds away from being "there" anyways! lol

So if a guy is scheduled to see me, but Im not available until the next day, or day after - and he has to 'rub one out' to my pics AS LONG AS he still cums to see me at our scheduled visit, I'm cool with that. Guys can usually replenish their 'loads' fairly quickly, so as long as, there's still a full one (or two) left in the chamber, with my name on them, IT'S ALL GOOD!!


Wink!
Kisses,
WhitneyLace

It's one of those "compliments" that doesn't sit quite right. When someone tells me that, I say ... uh, thank you but for whatever reason, it doesn't make me smile. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

+1. Maybe it's just because red flags fly when I get anything explicit in my inbox, even more so if it's from someone I've never met.

Regardless, if someone wants to compliment me, there are much better ways to do it. For example, you might mention my stunning grasp of the proper use of the semicolon. Know your audience.

Mikah,

No offense, but didn't you just go into detail on another thread about you yourself masturbating? Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed your description, just pointing out the double standard

I do agree with what someone else said, about the hobby being a place where certain social behaviors regarding sex and sexuality could be relaxed, and talking about masturbation, IMO, is one of them.

That being said, there's a fine line between being open about it and being downright creepy. Perhaps too thin of a line to walk with a stranger. Originally Posted by TheBizzer

I never said there was anything wrong with masturbating. I just don't want someone to text or email me letting me know they just masturbated to my pictures. I have had that happen to me before and it was a major turn off.

But Carrie,

What of the simple Comma, a most highly underrated punctuation mark...

Your work with the Semi-colin - outstanding, but let's see that comma, or maybe a fine use if the & sign....

PPE

Still-asleep - "thats so cute!"

I think it's a turn on. If the girl isn't available right at that moment, okay look, it's like getting ready to watch a porn. For me, I am already hella' turned on, so by the time the previews are showing the sloppy cof endings, and cream pies, etc...Im already 2 seconds away from being "there" anyways! lol

So if a guy is scheduled to see me, but Im not available until the next day, or day after - and he has to 'rub one out' to my pics AS LONG AS he still cums to see me at our scheduled visit, I'm cool with that. Guys can usually replenish their 'loads' fairly quickly, so as long as, there's still a full one (or two) left in the chamber, with my name on them, IT'S ALL GOOD!!

Wink!
Kisses,
WhitneyLace Originally Posted by WhitneyLace_of_FortWorth

whitney, sounds good to me. so, tomorrow late afternoon??
excuse me, i need to go to the other room now.

jack hard thinking about your incredible grasp of English language

+1. Maybe it's just because red flags fly when I get anything explicit in my inbox, even more so if it's from someone I've never met.

Regardless, if someone wants to compliment me, there are much better ways to do it. For example, you might mention my stunning grasp of the proper use of the semicolon. Know your audience. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest