How Do You Choose Who You See?

Cowboys 1960
If I have a limited timeframe and communication is bad, going to move on as I don’t know when next window will be open.

May I say .... that when you establish a trust relationship with a provider that satisfies your every need ...
That situation becomes much less a problem ...

pmdelites
location - 30 mins is generally my limit, tho i've driven from n.e. dallas to arlington and to ft worth for delites - some were excellent, some werent :^{

Wow .... that much road time for 30 min sessions?
You're totally missing out dude :-/

reputation - someone who gets a good rap, who enjoys what she does. otherwise, why bother?

To be honest .... I could not "enjoy" what I'm doing if it's just about 30min BJ's. Degrading.

OH WAIT!
YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT THE DRIVE ... NOT SESSION TIME! YES?

I'm aligned pretty close to PMD with one more that goes to becoming "ATF" material.

TCB - does she respond in a reasonable time to communications, and start appointments on time.

When I decide who to contact, I start with looks and age. I exclude ads where I am not able to verify these at least to a certain degree. If their ads indicate they forbid certain services that I would be interested in, I do not proceed any further. If I contact them, I get a feel for their communication during this stage. If all seems well, then I proceed with the requested appointment if possible.

Torre,

This absolutely makes sense. My 2 very exceptional experiences were both while I was out of town, 60 minutes and at my hotel.

Both local experiences were 30 minutes, incall and at their residence.

Have never seen someone more than once.

Not sure what I will partake in next, but your advice is appreciated.

Precious-b
What is odd about priming a discourse with the person starting the discussion by putting out how they choose seeing a person?
Maybe your freudian slip is showing us(sp) in

Well Mr. Precious .... your opinion is definitely,
However, that doesn't mean it is well respected.
My "Freudian slip" ... is not something I have to defend.
Perhaps you are making it clear that you're offended by providers who are very particular of who they see?
And maybe you don't qualify often enough?
Just throwing that out there.


Btw you included Providers to the thread. Not just hobbyist.

And there was something wrong with that?
Also, your post was a bit peculiar ... and slightly hard to decipher. Hhhhmmm.

... Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Thanks? Acknowledged == "recognized as being good or important"
"...doesn't mean it's well respected"

I don't think I posted anything that needed a "defense" from the OP. And nothing has offended me either by what people have posted as a response to your query.

Could you rephrase "And maybe you don't qualify often enough?" Don't understand what you mean.

And when you stated "Why couldn't this thread just come across as an inquiry to what hobbyist are more interested in these days?", I was just bringing up that you included Providers to engage on this thread.


Fall back, regroup.
Would you like me to reword my first response on this thread? Seems you might have misinterpreted it.

As a subset of Location, there is the Type of Incall...

- Car Dates
- No-tel Motel
- Better Hotel
- Apartment
- House

I prefer the established Incall locations to the scrambling to find a room drama.

Precious_b

Fall back, regroup.
Would you like me to reword my first response on this thread?
Seems you might have misinterpreted it.

Point well taken PB.
Sometimes the defense mode kicks in a bit early.

Although .... a well thought out response that is both precise and doesn't seem offensive is the best route.

So, I'm guilty of the same at times and I apologize.

Pangolier
I get a feel for their communication ...
If all seems well, then I proceed with the requested appointment if possible.

DownForWhatever

I prefer the established Incall locations to the scrambling to find a room drama.

Yes, I agree ... that is ideal ....
So I prioritized setting up an upscale, warm environment to visit with clients.

It's a whole different impression in so many ways.

pmdelites
location - 30 mins is generally my limit, tho i've driven from n.e. dallas to arlington and to ft worth for delites - some were excellent, some werent :^{

Wow .... that much road time for 30 min sessions?
You're totally missing out dude :-/

reputation - someone who gets a good rap, who enjoys what she does. otherwise, why bother?

To be honest .... I could not "enjoy" what I'm doing if it's just about 30min BJ's. Degrading.

OH WAIT!
YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT THE DRIVE ... NOT SESSION TIME! YES? Originally Posted by Torre Tames

yes, i was writing about drive time. for me, the provider needs to be above average in my criteria in order to justify/rationalize a 45min or 1hr drive to her place, unless i'm gonna do a 2hr appt or even an overnight.

the closest provider i've ever visited was 5mins from my home. the farthest about an hour away in Lake Worth.

i prefer a longer less rushed visit so that we can talk, caress, engage, relax, recharge, engage again. or a quick engagement, out for dinner or lunch, then back for a longer engagement.

after a couple of visits, if i feel like it's been an above average deliteful time and she is okay with it, i might schedule a 30min or even a car date. variety is the spice of life.

Reviews, bath quality and reliability.
Location
Looks
Intelligence

Everything else, not so much.

Chemistry/Vibe/Menu is #1
Looks is #2
Availability is #3
Price is #4
Location is #5 because mine could be anywhere on any given day

Reviews are hard because what a provider does with one should not always be expected from all. But consistent reviews and banter back and forth should give you a good indication. Difficult communication is a red flag!

Looks, performance, price

Ive mostly been exclusive to the studios in the Dallas area. convenience, easy setup and usually quick communication.
Ive tried to schedule with a couple of independent ladies and it just never happened. One just ghosted me after we exchanged some texts and were getting close to booking something. Another just didnt happen.


What I would look for from a provider... I would want someone who looks good and is proud of how she looks. Intelligence would be great too.. I like to spend an hour+ with a companion... the ones who I clicked with (and spoke decent English) were the ones who after playtime, we cuddles and just talked about random stuff. I have a limit on how much I would like to spend, but if its someone I click with, I can find a way to spend more (be it by longer sessions or w/e).
I may try my hand again outside of the studios.. they have just made it easy.. im not the best looking guy.. and not on the lighter side. I know a lot of providers say they dont care about it, but im still self conscious lol