Stood up

No, just contact her through the site that has the highest "donation".


If you can afford to do so.


Personally, I try to deal with ladies that maintain the same "donation" no matter what site they are advertising on, but ladies like that are few and far between.

So does the escort go to the highest bidder? Would it be insulting to tell an escort that you're willing to pay her more than her advertised rate? Originally Posted by cymbals

You really should find another hobby. I hear trains are popular.

Welcome to our world. Except with us girls its a worse hit, because we set that time aside for someone w3hich means more than likely we have turned away others that are willing to see us for that time because we expected original date to be at that time. Then bam! he no call/'no shows or cancels at last minute -so it feels like a double loss for us. I experience this at minimum at least once a week. its such an inconsiderate shitty thing to do.

Hell, I have an entire inbox of handles I could put on blast because they have done the same exact shit -but obviously that's not allowed, plus its not ladylike.

I had one guy here that did a last minute cancel & I w3as understanding & rescheduled him. You know what the asshat did -he stood me up the second time & then promptly told me he was "woo'd away" by another girl. No canceling no nothing. Makes you feel awesome to have your time wasted doesn't it?

It could be worse -you could be on our end of things & experience this on the regular... lol. Sorry, that happened to you -it sucks, cuz you sou7nd like one of the nice ones

It happens, it's part of the Hobby!

I once had a provider flake on me. Instead I found a cool new restaurant/bar and had dinner. While having dinner I sent a private message which included a photo of cash of on the bar, the food, and my beer, Thanking her for saving me $180 (of the $200 fee).

That truly sucks.im sure she will make it up to you.�� Originally Posted by VENUSNOVA

Assuming OP is so dumb he will give her a second chance to screw him without actually screwing him!

At least she didn’t say her car broke down, flat tire, car accident, lost phone, phone got stolen, abducted by aliens, etc.

Happens all the time, my friend. I wouldn’t take it personally and just move on. Originally Posted by omg_lol

Assuming OP is so dumb he will give her a second chance to screw him without actually screwing him! Originally Posted by Solemate62

just pry to a UFO asking for then aliens not to take till he done

I spent a month setting up a date with a provider. I texted her yesterday at noon as she requested and everything was a go. When I texted her my hotel room number she replied "I can't come I'm too tired". It sounded a little too much like my wife. It really sucked!! I'm a bit of a newbie to this hobby. Should I expect this to happen? Originally Posted by cymbals

SO WHERE DID YOU FIND HER & WHAT WAS HER RATE ????
GENERALLY "YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR" !!!
JUST LOOK AT THE OWNER OF THE NEW ENGLAND PATRIOTS...LMAO !!

It doesn't happen often but it sucks when it does.
As some ladies have pointed out it worse when it happens to them.
Dust yourself off and try your luck again.
If the lady is reputable and/or has an online presence then the chances of that happening again are slim IMO

Always have a plan b. I have Ben stood up and/or played by providers with good reputations. This enterprise is not noted for stable individuals on either side of the transaction. As others have said, if you are stood up it’s probably a good thing because your session would not have been very good. Console yourself with the money you saved. Nothing is ever a sure thing in this game.

I agree with several of the posts about this.

I sympathize with you on your no show. It happens. However, we are just speculating on the reason why. We can say a better offer came along, but there are many reasons it could be: a complicated matter at home and she didn’t want to explain it, for one. These ladies have lives, too.

As others have said, a lot of men cancel or no show on them, too. It’s worse then because she has reserved that time, and now not made any money as well.

It’s perfectly normal to be disappointed; but don’t lose perspective on the whole thing. It does happen, and many times for good reasons that you may not know.

Stick to ladies that are reputable with good reviews to mitigate this risk, and that should help. But there is always that chance.

We all have real lives to live. A little understanding often goes a long way.

1st of all, almost of us either hobbyist or provider can tell their own war story that has ended up that way or worse! It just happens. And don't be surprised if she takes the money and runs! Had that happen more than once!



And I would say NO on offering her more! Best leave a tip at the end if you had a good time!
And never short change a provider even if you feel ripped off.


I will just end with stay safe!

I agree with several of the posts about this.

I sympathize with you on your no show. It happens. However, we are just speculating on the reason why. We can say a better offer came along, but there are many reasons it could be: a complicated matter at home and she didn’t want to explain it, for one. These ladies have lives, too.

As others have said, a lot of men cancel or no show on them, too. It’s worse then because she has reserved that time, and now not made any money as well.

It’s perfectly normal to be disappointed; but don’t lose perspective on the whole thing. It does happen, and many times for good reasons that you may not know.

Stick to ladies that are reputable with good reviews to mitigate this risk, and that should help. But there is always that chance.

We all have real lives to live. A little understanding often goes a long way. Originally Posted by Goose7093

This exactly -you never know there may have been an accident or last minute emergency. I will admit that even on my own part its happened with me a couple times -embarrassingly enough. And I hate it because it's so unproffesional. One time, I completely overslept through a visit (I get bouts of insomnia -due to late night anxiety overactive mind ALOT) & the other time, which was recently, I lost my phone for two days & didn't have his email to be able to contact him & still confirm. But in these instances, because I fucked up I made sure to make it up & offer said dates an extra hour to make up for it, so they knew that I was sorry & that it was not the norm. I always want to make sure to correct something if I'm in the wrong, cuz I know how made I get when I get screwed

Hopefully, your date is the same & will try to make it up or do something extra nice for you

Ignoring some emergency:
Being stood up by a pro, or a civie, has the same amusing consequence of not asking her for a date in the future.

Nobody talks about this, but there are probably a good number of cancellations for health reasons that get passed off as something else because the provider is embarrassed. For example, her time of the month comes a little early. Or she's sick. Maybe she has herpes symptoms -- 20% of currently or formerly sexually active women in the USA test positive for HSV-2 (genital herpes) and over half for HSV-1 (oral herpes); undoubtedly the prevalence rate among providers is higher.

Anyway, I would never complain about a provider who courteously canceled a date. She might just be doing you a favor.

That truly sucks.im sure she will make it up to you.�� Originally Posted by VENUSNOVA

first off let me say you look incredible.

second when you say she will make it up to you the odds of that are next to nill.

the previous poster that says 90 percent of calls are stiffs may not be far out of line. i have been stiffed many times and i confirm , let folks know im on way , let them know if im running late. i try to dot the i's and cross the t's and still stiff rate is huge

almost alwayswith the day late excuse phone, family emergency, flat tires comes the promise ill make it up to you... half off next appointment , extra time , extra services.

all thats great till you call them on it and you are the bad guy .... cheapskate , bullshitter ,liar....

ive been stiffered driving 100 miles to toronto several times driving to rochester and rare is the time the make up ever comes through.. there are a few good to their word but it is the exception not the rule