How can somebody walk all over you when you keep following them from behind everywhere they go?
I don't know you, but I know this other provider. She has been a Lifeline for me. I think she's been a Lifeline for you, too.
Life comes at you fast I guess.
Originally Posted by RaginCajunMan
Last I checked I never had to ask anyone for a place to stay. Last I checked I opened my doors to her when she was basically down on her luck coming from elsewhere. She said no business there.
She came to my house and tried to treat me like a servant in my own home. Who does that??
Even if I had lived in a cardboard box I still took her in and went against all of my gut to do so. The 1st time I quit taking to her was also because of the way she treated others here on the boards. I stopped speaking to her then for a few months, but decided to give her a 2nd chance.
But when you are of no use to her she discards you like a used dishrag.
Who goes and insults someone by trying to change how they live in their own home?? I bent over backwards for her. She even went and bought a $65.00 garbage can because she hated my plastic one.
That was a blatant insult.
My home is lived in and loved. Clean and orderly. Never filthy. But let her tell it to all ya'all I had dirt floors and my home was a pig sty. If my home was so bad, why did she live there for months. I know, so she could use me up and talk about me when she was done like she did every other provider she has ever lived with from here to BR. and beyond.
But it is OK, I never turn a needy person away for a place to stay.
SMDH
She never done anything for me that I couldn't do for myself, or have paid someone else to teach me to do.
And as for following behind her, I have never done so. But I am sure she would have ya'all believing that.
When she moved out, and I was glad she did, she only left a bad taste in my mouth. She gave me a house key to her apt. but if I am following her why would she do that?? I never wanted much to do with her after that because she was mean to others on these boards. I have plenty of receipts where she has talked about others and told their business.. The main ones standing up for her now. Dummies!! I will be be more than happy to share.
She bad mouthed other providers and hobbiest from here to Houston.
When someone doesn't totally agree with her she pouts like a child. Even my nail tech told her to find another shop to visit because she treated her badly. Why is that?? Restaurant workers, nail techs, white folks, and other people. Do you see a pattern here?? They all cannot be wrong. And because I wasn't black, she treated me like I was a nobody. Little do you all know she hates white people unless she can use them to her benefit.
The people she has treated poorly has just not been me, there are a long line of others have spoken out.
I lost a few good friends because I sided with her over them for a bit, and I was told she would f'ck me over and I didn't listen. Now I have had to apologize to them and admit they were correct.
So good for you if she has done something for you. This was not mine or others I know experience.
Like I said I stay in my land unless I am made to defend myself.
Why is it she never defends herself?? She always pulls puppet strings and whispers to guys and providers to get on these boards and chime in for her. Do you think outside this hobby she would give 2 cents about ya' all. ??
Get broke, and not be able to pay her way and then you will see just how good of a friend she is really to you all.
So all ya'all who gave her your address for a flashlight beware. She didn't care for you safety, she just wanted to collect your info. and see where you lived so if she ever needs to she will feel comfortable using it against you.
Used up and useless.If anyone else has a rebuttle you would like to share feel free. I am all ears.
M.M.
Originally Posted by myren1900
