I also don't consider myself HDH - damn sure as hell not close at $400 an hour.
I believe HDH is pearl elite independents. http://www.pearleliteindependents.com/members.php and ladies in that price range. At least that is what
I think of when I think " high dollar hottie".
I also think it's all perceived value. If a guy feels the girl is worth $1,200 an hour, he will pay for it. If he doesn't, he will move on.
Depends on what you consider "high". I don't consider myself "HDH" but I've had people use the term regarding me before (quite touching by the way). I make it a point to give you every dollar worth too as I take a lot of pride in my work. The phrase "there's just something about her" plays into why people see "HDH"s. A woman who can keep you coming back for more than just pink is truly special - and this is something I strive to do/be. I put a lot of time and effort in providing a traditional courtesan session. A lot of other ""HDH"s" are the same, I'd imagine.
When you pay an "HDH" you generally aren't just paying for the pink. Reasons people may pay my rates? I've heard some of the following: My incall is spotless, I am always on time (and lord knows if something is going to make me late, you will know about it the second I do), I have never NCNSed a client, I am discreet, I am 'unique' in appearance (apparently? I had no idea until I started doing this but I hear it all the time), I keep the important areas tighter than a bank vault, I am a bohemian artist type, I fit in at 5* hotels and restaurants in dress and personality, I am professional, I do not upsell, I am...enthusiastic , I have a lot of life experience, I pamper and provide luxuries that others in the area do not, I'm "book smart" (graduated at 16 w/ 4.0, did well in uni, blah blah - I personally think this means very little, as some of the best people I've met dd not go to uni), and I designed my own website. Apparently a handmade website goes a long way because I hear this one tons.
Why do women charge above X an hour? Because people will pay it. Plain and simple. Why do you think even "HDH"s rates vary based on location? Not because they're worth less there, that's for certain.
It's all in what you're looking for in a session. If you want someone to remember your name, the stories you shared, and the time you spent together you'll probably go to a "HDH" over a high volume BP girl. It's all about preference and taste - neither is good or bad, it's just what YOU like.
As far as "needing" to tour to make a good living as a "HDH"? Eh, I guess it just depends on location. I have some of the higher rates in Nashville and went an entire year without major touring (went to a couple close places like Memphis and Louisville). Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa