What if a lady ASKS for something. Not talking about their "wish" list and not saying this was the case with Ze (I wasn't there). Some ladies have requested I bring everything from wine and flowers to steaks. Bad form on their part IMO.
Originally Posted by Hercules
It is indeed bad form. I think anything extra shouldn't come from the donation and the ladies shouldn't ask you to bring anything. To most of these ladies, providing is a means to an end. It is just a business transaction. We are paying them 3 Bennies per hour plus tip as an average now. They should be providing at least the wine or liquor or even beer. Some do.
I've had ladies ask me to bring the covers since they were out and no way to get to the store. That is worth stopping for.
But bringing steaks and flowers? For an ATF maybe.