I wear my mindset. I am not very attractive, and I am small. But a woman, to have an illusion of passion, must gain purchase by focusing on something. So, I share , among other things, some of the books I have written. And some other stuff. If my clock was my intellect, it would be a good 8 inches. But alas, it is not. Oh well as Darwin taught us, survival is not to the fittest but to the most adaptable.
Originally Posted by outoftheblue
Gosh. This was a very beautiful post to read. Just from reading this, you seem exceptionally attractive.
I really don't mind what men wear when they visit. It might be nice if some would decide to groom their toenails before visiting but such issues are fairly rare.
Generally, men dress nice and are clean and well groomed.
There have been a few times, and it's mostly happened with younger men, that they've showed up in stylized clothing (think Rockabilly) that has made me think for a moment when I've opened the door ... guess that I'm more used to khaki pants or jeans with a polo or t-shirt.
This may be showing my age a bit but a man wearing a traditional ironed (or not!) buttoned down shirt with either starched jeans or nice slacks always tend to get my motor running.
Elisabeth