It's raining and he wants to play with no coat NEW 2 this what do I do ??

I've had clients that wanted me to do BBFS...and they got shut down real quick. Just because a guy says their clean doesn't mean that they are. HPV is a silent disease that can go undetected for years, and sometimes even decades. There is a guy in Glen Cove, NY going around doing BBFS and asking girls to do BBFS. He tried to get me to do BBFS back in 2007 and I walked out on him. Plus I don't want to get pregnant again. I can't take hormonal birth control of any kind and the IUD caused other health issues that prompted me to get rid of it :-(
I know you're new to this...but did you not know of STD's before becoming a provider? Or how babies are made?

I'm just not really connecting on how being new to escorting relates to you not knowing whether to use condoms or not with men not committed to you - ie clients.

Most folks don't question health risks or chance it , and neither should you, you know you're more valuable.

Are you also new to having sex and the responsibilities that come with it?? You may pm me for help for the sake of your health and feminine health precisely. ..
Raw Dog in 3-2-1....:jawdro p: Originally Posted by atlcomedy
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Your pussy, your rules ... If he cannot follow your rules, its pretty simple ...
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Wow what a topic!! I say go for it. Are better yet tell him to get tested if everything comes back good go for it. You got a better chance of being killed in a car accident than getting something that would kill you. No one here pays your bills Feeds you cloths you are give a shit about you. If you agree to it and so does he have at it.
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I know I am not the only guy on here who would be put off if I knew a provider did BBFS with their clients

guys talk more than people think. you start getting that rep it can cost you money over the long run vs. losing a regular.
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Provider advertises bbfs and her phone blows up ringing off the hook with guys wanting some. Pm full you name it they will hunt it and fill it with messages.

I remember years ago there was this girl who ran a special she was a pregnant provider "cremepies and milk". She was oy a few months pregnant I think but was lactating like crazy. I sucked milk from her breast while she rode me slowly and CIP.

Still makes me quiver when I think about that time probably 6 years now.

Sometimes I even search for her she was from Portland
Provider advertises bbfs and her phone blows up ringing off the hook with guys wanting some. Pm full you name it they will hunt it and fill it with messages. Originally Posted by Raw dog
lotusflower, verify this with the ladies. Or, just take a Raw Dog's word for it.

If it is true, do you want to become a bbfs provider? If your phone does ring off the hook, you know what they're going to want, right? Once you take that route, good luck un-ringing that bell.
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I wish people would stop being naive when it comes to this topic. First, we ALL know it happens in the hobby far more often than what most would think or admit. I'm not advocating everyone BB all the time or heaven forbid advertise it. I'm saying if both parties are comfortable with BBFS, it is a realistic option and choice. People just need to be educated and not fall for the propaganda some out there are peddling. Having BB sex is perfectly normal. Also, I don't buy the argument that you should think of future clients. I'm sure every provider has BBed with a guy at some point in her life, so she is ALREADY exposing future clients. My point is that each person should make up their own mind. For some, they will BB. Some won't. A lot of us will under the right circumstances.
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after you met with a member more than once I am new to this and want to build up clientele but one is asking me and when he says baby we have seen each other a few times I'm a clean guy you see that I rally want to satisfy him as well as continue to see him what do I do Originally Posted by lotusflower
It happens BCD, and many ladies will do it. Personally, if I know of a lady who openly practices this, she moves on my NEVER see list. In other words, ya gotta ...

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I think the other way. If I know it maybe abailable, I'm putting the lady on my list of ladies to see. At least, I will research her. If I het a good vibe, I'll probably see her. Doesn't mean I will BBFS with her. Point is, it is another option that I consider when seeing a provider.
It happens BCD, and many ladies will do it. Personally, if I know of a lady who openly practices this, she moves on my NEVER see list. In other words, ya gotta ...

Originally Posted by BigBaldBlk
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It happens BCD, and many ladies will do it. Personally, if I know of a lady who openly practices this, she moves on my NEVER see list. In other words, ya gotta ...

Originally Posted by BigBaldBlk
That's kind of funny in a way. A provider has sexy bareback and that runs you off damn!! Her being a sex worker doesn't do it to you but it she would have sex without a condom, your out of there. Right? She gets put on a "do not see list" are your serious? Ever provider bb!! Ever single provider in this world bb at some time. If that's a scary though but a lot of porn and lube and hang out T your house.

Please people we are adults here let's stop acting like everyone is stupid.
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Hello! How many others has he said that to do you think??

Tell him it's time for him to be moving on.
It's obviously each individuals choice, but I would highly recommend against it. For me, it would be an automatic no and ending communication with that client. I wouldn't trust someone who tried to pressure me into doing bbfs. If he wants it bad enough to pressure you he might be sneaky and try to trick you. Be safe rather than sorry!
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WOne of the providers in this thread thus far protests a lil too much and actually has a porn video of themselves on the net doing bbfs...........but I guess they feel different now...........

To the original poster don't do it unless your ready for the risk associated. Word will get around either way.......could be bad or good.........

I personally wouldn't see a provider who willingly offers this though.

If your worried that he may not see you again.....offer him use of female condoms. it shows your making a valiant attempt to please him as well as protect yourself.