What would move a particular lady to the top of the list ... hmm, let's see ...
First of all, being somewhat of a shallow soul, she would have to be incredibly sexy or just down right hot (to me there IS a difference)... in a subjective sort of way of course.
Second would have to be one if not TWO of the following activities.
1. BBBJCIMNQN/BS - She will need to be known in certain circles that she has toe-curling ability and an actual need to please her man. This comes from her loving what she does for her own satisfaction.
2. ASS-play - Greek is the cherry on top, but never expected. If she is willing to let me do my thing
... then I see her as a very promising prospect.
Third ...
There have been very few providers that I have met for the first time that I feel I just naturally clicked with. Sometimes I can gather from reviews written by trusted individuals, that a lady has an inner being inside her that draws you in. It isn't her intellect or her stories of travel, it's her way of being able to make you feel comfortable and welcome without having to resort to endless smalltalk or ... IDK, it's kind of hard to explain sometimes.
Maybe I've been away to long, LOL.
Not necessarily in that order, but that's what would do it for me.