To STRAP ON or not to STRAP ON

wooohooooo it will be game on then Miss athena! be that way in a few months! lol

I think there are multiple ways of looking at this question just depends on your point of view. Just communicate before hand so there are no let downs on either side. Personally, as the hobbyist, I would expect that you would have your own if you offer that service. However, if you normally do not, and it is a special request from a client, I would say that you should tell them you would be happy to (if you are) but that is something you do not normally offer and it is BYOT. Or you can look at it as tools of the trade and have a bag of toys for any situation you are willing to get into.

Or something I think would be really fun... would to go together to a toy store, pick something out, and have fun!

I want to echo what was said by islander7695. Since this is something I routinely search for with a provider, I believe that you should be able to provide the toy if you offer the service. I can understand not having one if it is something you have not tried and are curious about. I used to have my own that was great for those situations. Also, if you choose to get a toy I highly recommend that you have one that is able to switch out dildo's for different sizes, or have a couple of different sizes. Having multiple toys is great as well. Some of my best times where when it was me an experienced girl and a beginner in the same session. I like to be the guinea pig for someone who wants to learn to provide that service... especially if she brings along someone who is experienced.

If you are providing this as a service, you should be providing the strap-on as well. There's a couple of good reasons for this. First it means you can select a harness that you both enjoy and fits you well. Most ladies who enjoy giving strap-on will tell you that a good fitting harness is a must for a good session. Having it move all over, chafing of your nether bits (ouch), or having it fall out of the holder because its not a good fit (how embarrasing!) is best avoided.

You'll also have more control over the sizes and shapes of your dildoes. This will allow you to scale up your penetrator from 'virginal' to 'i can fit a mack truck in this ass!'.

Plus, well, as the provider, it is kind of incumbent upon you to provide this. If you were to go to a restaurant, you would expect them to provide the steak, right?

quote---You'll also have more control over the sizes and shapes of your dildoes. This will allow you to scale up your penetrator from 'virginal' to 'i can fit a mack truck in this ass!'.

I just did that.....I used a couple of really large strap-ons{sized 8 inch to 10inch} during a session recently..........the guy was a real trooper!


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http://www.vac-u-lock.com/detail/1/1...ent-Black.html Originally Posted by DallasRain

Wow...

DallasRain, you are officially my hero. Not many ladies do the strap thing. I have to meet you sometime. I know I'm pretty noobie, but after I gain some experience maybe. Keep doing what you do.

I have been enjoying this service with some providers and find if a woman offers "toys for boys" 80% of the time they have a strap-on or strap-ons (different sizes) if they are more experienced with this service. Some providers do not explicitly offer the service but will if you ask and you bring a strap-on.

If a provider only has 1 strap-on I'll usually bring my own if I remember as I have ran into a situation or two where the provider's strap-on was <cough> uncomfortable...

I have been enjoying this service with some providers and find if a woman offers "toys for boys" 80% of the time they have a strap-on or strap-ons (different sizes) if they are more experienced with this service. Some providers do not explicitly offer the service but will if you ask and you bring a strap-on.

If a provider only has 1 strap-on I'll usually bring my own if I remember as I have ran into a situation or two where the provider's strap-on was <cough> uncomfortable... Originally Posted by StingerMI

Now thats real funny BUTT!!! Maybe painful!!!!!! If you like pain???

Anyone know of providers who specialize in strapon play in the Fort Worth or Arlington, or general DFW Mid-Cities area?

DallasRain, please chime in if you can recommend someone in this area!
I'd love to see you, if you ever get to my area!

Dallas,

love the idea, but the "kong dong" has hair on it... GROSS! smooth it out please....

Wanting to be a "happy banana"...

If in doubt, ask the client, esp. as Newbies may not have their own.I bring my own toy bag as I know what I enjoy..

I have tried and missed aligning schedules with DR her last several visits. Every thread she posts in reassures my notion that I have to make that work out next time!

In the meantime...Katelynn could solve two curiosities at the same time...the hot young lady I have been meaning to see and well...

I do strap-on and prostate, and enemas....SSSOOOOO FUN!

I think GoddessDallas will rock your world!